Isn't it supposed to be unconditional? I finally got to talk to my husband for the first time in a month or more, and I was jokingly saying that I was going to eat ice cream non stop and be a cow when he got home. He gets all serious and tells me that he won't love me if I'm fat.
How rude is that? I would love him no matter what he looked like. I have even loved him after he came home from four hour sessions of PT and smelled like...well it wasn't pretty. He is starting to bald and I told him that I will love him when he just has the ring of hair. Even though that is a turn off for me, he is my HUSBAND. Right? Or am I wrong?
He says that I can control my weight and therefore he has a right to say that. With his hair he can't control it. I find it very shallow for him to tell me that he wouldn't love me if I was 'fat'.
I'd like chazzer input on this because I am extremely offended and actually hurt by this. It's almost as if he only married me because he thought that I was sexy, and if I'm not then why be with me?
How rude is that? I would love him no matter what he looked like. I have even loved him after he came home from four hour sessions of PT and smelled like...well it wasn't pretty. He is starting to bald and I told him that I will love him when he just has the ring of hair. Even though that is a turn off for me, he is my HUSBAND. Right? Or am I wrong?
He says that I can control my weight and therefore he has a right to say that. With his hair he can't control it. I find it very shallow for him to tell me that he wouldn't love me if I was 'fat'.
I'd like chazzer input on this because I am extremely offended and actually hurt by this. It's almost as if he only married me because he thought that I was sexy, and if I'm not then why be with me?