I dunno guys. I just can't hold grudges as easily as people I guess.
It was a really crappy situation, yeah.
But aren't your emotions going haywire at 8 months pregnant?
And people really can't pull the stuff about why she didn't leave her ex. Sometimes, exes like that or guys like that have a HOLD on you. You cant just leave. Its not that simple. She had to choose leaving him, and being a single mom, or staying with him and trying to trust him.
I love chaz, but if I were ever in dire straights, I probably would not turn to an internet forum for help. My parents would take my dogs. My parents also have the luxury of owning their own house. If I had nobody, and chaz came to the rescue, and offered to take my dogs... that would be great. But it honestly would not be my top priority.
You guys she said during all of this he was BEATING HER. Her and her unborn child. She couldn't take Reg to her moms. Don't fault her for not having a backup plan. Those of us that do are LUCKY. We are LUCKY because most of us have family that WOULD take our dogs if need be. She wasnt so lucky. And neither was reg the dog.
I dare you all, every SINGLE one of you, to think back about your worst moment. Your ABSOLUTE worst moment...
did you learn a lesson from it? Did people forgive you?
Mine, was when I came home in May of 2008 to a dead cat. I did not take the proper steps, I was naive and thought it wouldnt happen again and not SIX months later, I came home to ANOTHER dead cat. That's 2 dead cats. Because of me. I can't change that, and my cats did not deserve that. But I swear to you I loved them. I feel terrible for what happened, and I am grateful to those who forgave me.
It is only a regret if you did not learn a lesson.
I'm sorry but if Reg the human had worried so much about Reg the dog and put him as her top priority, and something happened to one of her kids in the process? Like oh I dunno, her being at the house with reg and the ex showing up and hurting her... I'm pretty sure everyone would be thinking, "Why didnt she stay away from him?"
Sucks what happened, but I really hope that everyone can just move on. If you cant forgive her, fine, dont comment on her threads. But she is a member her, and if you are going to fault her for anything, fault her for sharing her personal life on this forum. If reg had been taken by her ex, and been hurt or killed or something, I think that would be a worse fate. I really hope that this can all just be put to rest, and I think its brave of her to post about it in the first place. But honestly guys, I get that the wounds are not fully healed..
But think about her wounds... why can't we help her heal hers? After all SHE is the one who actually KNEW reg. SHE is the one who doesnt have him anymore. Dont you think shes suffered enough?
ETA- where did she ever say she was back with her ex? Did I miss something?