just plain messy

The idea of leaving a comment on her blog is lame and immature.

She's reading this forum, obviously, so what is the point of posting on her website? She can see everything you write on here anyway.

Leaving comments on her blog just seem stalker'esque and pointless.

I have to laugh at people thinking leaving a comment on her blog is stalkerish.

well it kinda is lol

We all know she sees what we say here... then we all search out everything we can find about her on the internet... then we check her website everyday. NOW there is a blog so let's post on it... then people are harassing her on facebook.....

STALKER

that's basically the internet equivalent of following someone around all day everyday lol it's kinda sad.

if it were just leaving a comment that would be one thing but it seems some people are following her all over the internet. obsession

And how many times have we, as a forum, said that jumping down peoples throats is not productive and not any way to change things.

No wonder she isn't coming back to explain herself.

Would any of you?

I don't think most of us would have made such awful decisions in the first place.

Everyone makes bad decisions at some point in time. Doesn't give everyone else the right to follow you everywhere just to ridicule you and impose their will on you.

no one is perfect. We all make mistakes. the difference is that usually our mistakes aren't scrutinized and looked at under a magnifying glass and then broadcast loud and clear.

At some point it goes from being upset to being obsessed. At some point you just gotta let it go.

I agree that everyone makes bad decisions, I just think this was a REALLY bad decision. It was a thought out bad decision. She knew what the response would be, she still decided to make the bad decision, so I can't say I feel any pity for her.

As for letting it go, I agree. It makes me legitimately angry to think about what she did, but I'm not following her around and I've kept very quiet through this thread.

Also, I don't necessarily disagree with posting on the blog. I think it could have been done in a MUCH more productive manner, but I think having the information out there on her site may allow potential buyers to see it before thinking about purchasing a puppy from her.

I knew that was coming lol.

We've all made mistakes. I just find it hard to keep going after her. Things could be a lot worse. 4 tiny puppies, in the grand scheme of things, is not something to get so worked up over.

Yes.
She has said multiple times she struggles with bi-polar disorder and knowing that NONE of what has occurred surprises me. I do have real feelings for her and I wish this hadn't happened, and I wish she would come back and explain stuff... even if it's just to outright say "yes, I did it even though I knew it was bad." But more than that I just hope she is well. Chasing her down to harass her is going to help NOTHING.

I have self esteem issues and whenever anyone attacks me, I get MORE defensive.

Exactly. There is obviously something psychologically wrong with Foxy, and harassing her is only going to make things worse.

We know she's reading this thread.

There's a difference between checking her website and posting derogatory comments.

Well if she is checking back, which I suspect, she's not bothered to log in for over a month now.

But with her website being mentioned on Chaz and all the following disturbance that has caused, I think it's pretty safe to say anyone that searches for her website is probably either A. isn't going to find it (as I couldn't when googling) or will find Chaz before her website and see the disturbance in the force.

I hope so.

I bet she'll delete the comments on her blog (it'd be stupid not to) but this thread will hopefully come up in a search.

It's been an interesting journey, that's for sure.

its not just her blog, its a shared blog (if we are talking about the same one, live journal) so they would likely be deleted even if not by her.

No, this blog is the one linked several pages back, which is part of a Weebly-templated website.

No, this was NOT a mistake. This was NOT an unplanned litter and the way she is handling finding homes for the puppies is NOT only to place them in good homes- she is charging between $850-$1000 for EACH puppy. This was NOT a mistake, this was a conscious decision. I am sad that it's apparently okay to go to a BYB to get the puppy that you want NOW instead of researching and waiting if it has to be a certain breed. There are tons of snuggly perfectly fine puppies in shelters if it's just the aspect of bringing joy. It seems like it's more convenient to mean what you preach when it's someone else.

However, I am appalled that people leave such nasty comments on the website. Drama shouldn't be brought here from other sources and drama shouldn't leave this forum either. And, most importantly, people with obvious, severe mental disorders should not be attacked on that level.

I can say honestly that I would. I would say my piece and then probably not come back. But I would want to say my piece. I'm stubborn though.

Anyways, yeah the posts on the blog are really not productive.

Same here.

This whole mess is sad. Really sad and angry.

Haven't followed this whole thread completely but it is very sad that she couldn't make better choices. I hope the pups find loving homes and that Foxy gets help.

I agree, the comments on her site aren't necessary and just mean.

Also, it seems like people are searching craigslist and other sites to see if she posts there (mainly seems like that on her blog) just so they can find something else she has done wrong. Which is pretty sad.

This whole situation makes me want to scream "stop it, stop it you horrible bullies" this is all it is, playground bullying. Leave it be now, you are not going to change anything. Just stop it now.