Hello Milgram Effect!
No, I would not allow that, but a lot of people would. Not because they don’t care about their dog but because they assume the authority figure knows best. I was in a training class where the head trainer (a very successful obedience and field trial competitor) grabbed a dobie by the prong and jerked him back to where he blew the stay. He was yelping and peeing himself the whole way back. NOBODY (including me) did a thing. Some people even laughed.
And yes, I still kick myself for not doing anything. I could have at least made a statement by walking out.
Just this past weekend we had an incident at a run through that was the same authority figure type thing. We were doing long sits and downs and we had the novice dogs all through the open and utility dogs together. So I’m there with my friend and we’re the only two novice dogs. Her dog breaks, and the trainer grabs the dog and re-sets him before she can do anything. Her dog is very shy and hates being handled, and even though the trainer was not rough in her handling, the dog was clearly freaked out by it. So I leaned over and suggested she go treat him since he was clearly stressed out. She goes to walk up to him and treat and return and one of the utility gals yells “don’t treat him!! You don’t treat them for making a mistake!!†So my friend backed off. Sure enough, the dog broke again - because that’s what he does, when he gets upset he wants his mom and returns to her. Darned if the trainer didn’t step in AGAIN and freak him out more. Now this dog is a very “quiet†dog and the freaking out is not obvious, but certainly the plastered ears and bug eyes are...
My friend was beyond pissed, but she didn’t stand up for her dog, not because she didn’t care but because in that sort of situation, even though you “know†what is right for your dog, in the moment with all these people who supposedly know more than you, you start to doubt yourself. I know I was...
Anyway, it was a total clustermuck from this dog’s POV and his training. I know how stressed he was because my dog was next to him and they are good buds, and my guy went down on the sit as the trainer was resetting my friend’s dog next to my dog. And yep, she then re-set my guy. Of course he loves being handled so he probably found that rewarding. “Cool, if I down, peope come up to me and touch me!â€