Hypothetically (since you are happily married
) You meet a guy he is WONDERFUL. You have many fantastic dates. He is witty, charming, shares interests. Is just the right level of attentiveness with out being clingy. He looks hot in his bathing suit etc etc.
You have some intimate moments (but they are in the dark) and they are great.
Then one day you see he is in clean (not dingy or stained.. ew) tighty whiteys all your desire for him goes away?
What if he offered to switch to tighty blueys? Would that make it ok. I mean just how much time DO YOU spend looking at your man in his undies? :rofl1::rofl1: