Wow, just wow. You are really missing my point I see. I'm not criticizing you or anyone's way of trying to get weight off or saying anything is easy. I ought to know how hard it is for crying out loud. I gained 45 lbs with my babies. I didn't lose it all but I wasn't as careful as I should have been. That's why
I didn't get down to my previous weight, which was still about 10 lbs over probably. I ate too many of the wrong things too often and have off and on since. Sometimes I've been okay, but most of these years, some degree...(maybe 10 lbs, sometimes more) of being overweight.
Just the past couple years, I've gotten up to 170 lbs. That's obese for my height and frame etc. All of a sudden, I became so shocked at my behavior which caused this that I did an abrupt 180 and started doing something about it. I didn't get that way by eating correctly. Now I got down to about 130 or so, much better, but still about 10 - 15 lbs away from my ideal. Then the holidays and I gained 8.
Since the holidays I think I just lost a couple 2-3. I'm not losing weight because I'm eating junk. I'm losing because I'm eating healthy fresh food, not too many carbs, not too much of the wrong kinds of fat, combined with exercise.
Of course it's not easy and of course I'm not trying to discourage anyone. wha?
I'm merely stating that pregnancy and childbirth in and of itself is not a valid excuse for being overweight indefinitely.
Yes, my Mom and sister have never had weight issues so naturally, they didn't gain extra weight. So are you're saying that people who eat in a healthy way and exercise can still become obese? I don't buy it. Unless there's some rare or unusual thyroid or other medical problem.