I am secretly aiming for somewhere close to that......
But don't want as you said to feel like it's so far off I will never get there, I was about 130 there I have never been tiny, I set my goal at 145, I was there after my first gain and loss, and felt comfortable with myself... So my first goal is to get there and then see if I want to aim for more....
I don't really think the pregnancies or "babies" were why I gained weight... More a serious lifestyle change that occurred after having them... Combined with just not looking after myself and putting my own health, appearance and most of who I was dead last as I looked after my family both young and old... I tend to forget "I" matter too, and feel selfish and guilty.... This gain happened for much the same reasons as when I was a young newlywed mom of two.... Serious lifestyle change, my life has become almost overwhelmingly busy.. With care of an 86 year old and full time work, along with helping hubby run a business... I need once again to prioritize myself and not lose myself caring for others....
This iPhone is a godsend, when it's quiet at work, or I am sitting at a Dr appointment with John and so on.... I can browse the net, organize lists, email and so on...