the particular info that I deleted out of REe's post is private and should not be disclosed on line. IT has nothing to do with if or if not the touch was appropriate which is why I stated the scene exactly as I saw it.
what if your a 12 yr old in crisis and no one is believing her tho she is repeatedly stating so, this being the "
lie". Would you still speak up if you were her? EVerything is falling apart inside of you and this man is calling you a liar and touching you.
Then after a discussion with me about how the bus is a trigger and I should go back to driving her he personally walked her to the bus and put her on it with the two girls she just ratted out for inhaling enamel spray paint which is why we were in the er the night before, she was playing with the can and we had a very terrifying ordeal and are very lucky that she is alive and unharmed by it.
I told the councilor I would be there to pick her up. I was there to pick her up as we had agreed on. I had to get home as quickly as I could to beat the bus. Hyia is now in the hospital and will be until next Friday. She needs some vibes and a ton of love and understanding. HE knew fully well all about this, and he put her on the bus anyway.This was the final straw. SHe will not get to have field day, or award ceremony where she earned one for a high grade. She will not get to have any of the last of year fun. I Told her to think of something she would really enjoy when she gets out and we would go do just that .So we are planning a family trip to the aquarium that just opened. I also told her if she would like to paint her room she has right up until the paint is mixed to change her mind so it would give her something positive and fun to think about. I feel so bad about the whole thing there are just no words. Would things have escalated without his "help" and i mean that as sarcastic as I can, probably. BUT he is suppose to be someone she can look to for help, and guidance, and this is what he gave her. She will never see him again and I will make sure of that. He didn't just push her over the edge her tossed her over the abyss.
. I was standing outside in front of the building to pick her up. I didn't write that part first because I wanted objective perspectives that this touch was or was not appropriate to the situation. It didn't matter what was being said, if it was a boy or a girl, or even what the "lie" was about. She said she wasn't ready to go back to school, she was asked to leave the room where I was told she would be fine. She has done this many times before. He has no clue what he has done.