I seriously do, not kidding at all. I hate to say that because I know you're not supposed to actually hate your siblings, you are just supposed to fight with them and then get along again, or something like that. But I do, I ****ing hate her!
She is, at 11 years old, completely out of control. She lies CONSTANTLY, about everything. Things that don't matter, at all! You can ask her what her favorite color is, and she'd lie about it. She is not a pleasant person to be around, as soon as she walks in the door she starts yelling and demanding things. My grandparents have actually asked that my mom not bring her to their house anymore, that is how bad it has gotten (not that she knows this, obviously). My mom's boyfriend has also tried everything to get along with her, and he is reaching a breaking point too. I LOVED the 5 months I was in Minnesota and I didn't have to see her or talk to her at all.
If I get anything that she thinks is nice or wants, she takes it. For the last few weeks she has been stealing one of my blankets that was a going away present from a friend when I left for MN last year. Now she has started taking my shirts and wearing them to school. They are way too big, it looks ridiculous, but she won't stop even when I have asked her. She just continues to tell me that she is keeping them. If I take them back she threatens to let Frodo out of the house when I am not here, and I don't trust her not to, and I am gone for work before she wakes up. She also broke her computer and now if mine gets left out she will be on it and then completely deny it, she put so many viruses on her computer, I don't want her on mine!
Being nice gets you NOWHERE with her. I have tried so many times to treat her like I would a dog and be positive and ask her to go places with me or play games with her and it always blows up in my face. Always. So I try not to talk to her at all, but she constantly interjects if I try to talk to my mom about anything. She HAS to say something snotty and rude, she can't just shut up. She just pushes and pushes until I can't take it, and then I say mean things that I KNOW I shouldn't be saying, but I can't help it.
She goes through phases where she will say that Frodo is hers and then feed him random people food (or cups and cups of dog food) and lie about it, she will constantly call him from laying on the couch with me to be with her and when he doesn't go she will try and drag him away from me by his collar if I don't stop her. She also does this with Mollie and tells me I am not allowed to pet her or feed her or walk her, which of course I continue to do because if I don't it won't get done.
I am just so sick of her. I shouldn't have to lock my dog in a crate with a padlock so she won't mess with him. I shouldn't have to hide things from her so she doesn't take them. I shouldn't have to spend all my time at home in my room to avoid her.
I'll be amazed if anybody reads this, but I just wanted to get it out.
(As I am writing this she is screaming at my mom because she wants the front door open and my mom wants it closed because she has the heat on)
I can't wait to move
She is, at 11 years old, completely out of control. She lies CONSTANTLY, about everything. Things that don't matter, at all! You can ask her what her favorite color is, and she'd lie about it. She is not a pleasant person to be around, as soon as she walks in the door she starts yelling and demanding things. My grandparents have actually asked that my mom not bring her to their house anymore, that is how bad it has gotten (not that she knows this, obviously). My mom's boyfriend has also tried everything to get along with her, and he is reaching a breaking point too. I LOVED the 5 months I was in Minnesota and I didn't have to see her or talk to her at all.
If I get anything that she thinks is nice or wants, she takes it. For the last few weeks she has been stealing one of my blankets that was a going away present from a friend when I left for MN last year. Now she has started taking my shirts and wearing them to school. They are way too big, it looks ridiculous, but she won't stop even when I have asked her. She just continues to tell me that she is keeping them. If I take them back she threatens to let Frodo out of the house when I am not here, and I don't trust her not to, and I am gone for work before she wakes up. She also broke her computer and now if mine gets left out she will be on it and then completely deny it, she put so many viruses on her computer, I don't want her on mine!
Being nice gets you NOWHERE with her. I have tried so many times to treat her like I would a dog and be positive and ask her to go places with me or play games with her and it always blows up in my face. Always. So I try not to talk to her at all, but she constantly interjects if I try to talk to my mom about anything. She HAS to say something snotty and rude, she can't just shut up. She just pushes and pushes until I can't take it, and then I say mean things that I KNOW I shouldn't be saying, but I can't help it.
She goes through phases where she will say that Frodo is hers and then feed him random people food (or cups and cups of dog food) and lie about it, she will constantly call him from laying on the couch with me to be with her and when he doesn't go she will try and drag him away from me by his collar if I don't stop her. She also does this with Mollie and tells me I am not allowed to pet her or feed her or walk her, which of course I continue to do because if I don't it won't get done.
I am just so sick of her. I shouldn't have to lock my dog in a crate with a padlock so she won't mess with him. I shouldn't have to hide things from her so she doesn't take them. I shouldn't have to spend all my time at home in my room to avoid her.
I'll be amazed if anybody reads this, but I just wanted to get it out.
(As I am writing this she is screaming at my mom because she wants the front door open and my mom wants it closed because she has the heat on)
I can't wait to move