I generally don't like my bras showing, whether it's straps, the back, the sides, etc.
These days, I wear more of DH's shirts than my own, so it's a moot point. But I still have a few shirts that fit, and I have to wear a bra that matches the cut of the neck and if it's sleeveless, that too. Strapless is a PITA. I hate it, it never works.