We've been together (living) going on 18 years and we've been married for 14 years, a happy marriage with it's normal bumps in the road but mange to work through them and growing stronger together.
To me there's nothing wrong with Cali's rule. And Dekka, the saddest thing you've read on the internet? Really?
Anyway, for us it's just something we've talked about a long time ago. I've been with a jealous man in the past, so believe me when I say my husband isn't the jealous type. Sure he might have his moments here and there, so do I and so does anyone. Our understanding of being friends with the opposite sex only is in group setting. The verbal intimacy shared with another man is what I don't want to get into. If I need to share something I want my husband to be the first to know.
As to the OP, why did he feel compelled to share all this with you? It strikes me oddly that he's willing to talk about his wife to others that way instead of working it out with her.
ETA: I was also going to mention that one of my good friend is a gay man, he's been in a long term relation and lives next door. He's more like a brother to me and love him dearly. My husband refers him as my gay husband. So yah, opposite sex friend with him, in our relationship is ok.
To me there's nothing wrong with Cali's rule. And Dekka, the saddest thing you've read on the internet? Really?
Anyway, for us it's just something we've talked about a long time ago. I've been with a jealous man in the past, so believe me when I say my husband isn't the jealous type. Sure he might have his moments here and there, so do I and so does anyone. Our understanding of being friends with the opposite sex only is in group setting. The verbal intimacy shared with another man is what I don't want to get into. If I need to share something I want my husband to be the first to know.
As to the OP, why did he feel compelled to share all this with you? It strikes me oddly that he's willing to talk about his wife to others that way instead of working it out with her.
ETA: I was also going to mention that one of my good friend is a gay man, he's been in a long term relation and lives next door. He's more like a brother to me and love him dearly. My husband refers him as my gay husband. So yah, opposite sex friend with him, in our relationship is ok.