What makes men (or women for that matter) undateable?

Jeremy wouldnt DARE do that for me. I will do it for him sometimes since he gets the same exact thing LOL.

PLus he takes a year to spit it out LOL

I actually HATE ordering. lol. I much prefer to tell the guy(or whoever I happen to be with ATM) what I want, and have them do it.

and unless the guy is wearing sailor moon panties.... boxers, briefs, tighty whities, doesn't really bother me.

I don't know why but tightie whities turn me off. it's just a quirk of mine. if guy didn't like my underwear and was turned off by them then we wouldn't date for long simple as that lol.

I'm not a shallow person but I do have to have some sort of physical attraction to the person as well as an emotional connection. I won't LOVE someone for their appearance but I do have to find them physically appealing as well

. I look at Brian all the time and think "I love the way that shirt looks on him" or those pants or that hat... whatever. doesnt' mean our relationship is shallow

and for me... tightie whities are just a turn off.

As for things that make a guy undateable. I love a guy that wants to spend time with me but not a guy that is clingy. I love a guy that can express his emotions and even cry... but if he cries over every little thing that's a turn off. Jealousy... big turn off. sneaking around snooping on me NOT cool. If you want to know something ASK ME. Arrogance.

You know what they say about salads, right?

"Thing is, we're having the ribs -- and if you have no appetite at dinner, we can only imagine what you'll be like in bed."

Yeah, except this was a starter salad, not an entree salad.

Give me ribs!!!

Tightey Whiteys.
Look, there are other options for underwear. Insist on wearing that style, at least wear colored ones. Nothing is more unattractive than pee-stained white undies.

Excessive body hair. I know it's not your fault you have it (my bf does that's for sure) but maintenance is key.

Poor hygiene - just no, take a f*cking shower, tyvm.

That could be a plus, though

^ :hail::hail::hail:

This is pretty much the only thing that gets to me..

I personally CANNOT date a guy with gross teeth.. I just would never be able to kiss him.

Clingyness/borderline possessiveness.

I have never dated a truly possessive individual, but the above is enough to have me running.

Yes, I want to spend time with you, but not all the time, not by a long shot. Sorry, too independent. I can completely understand how this would send both men and women bonkers.

I couldn't handle jealousy either. And no trust.

haha, I actually order for my husband a lot of the time because he forgets what he decided to get half the time...he just doesn't care that much about what he orders and doesn't feel like looking at the menu for too long so I usually suggest things I know he likes and he'll pick. He likes this

Hypothetically (since you are happily married ) You meet a guy he is WONDERFUL. You have many fantastic dates. He is witty, charming, shares interests. Is just the right level of attentiveness with out being clingy. He looks hot in his bathing suit etc etc.

You have some intimate moments (but they are in the dark) and they are great.

Then one day you see he is in clean (not dingy or stained.. ew) tighty whiteys all your desire for him goes away?

What if he offered to switch to tighty blueys? Would that make it ok. I mean just how much time DO YOU spend looking at your man in his undies? :rofl1::rofl1:

:rofl1: @ tighty blueys hahahahahahaha

For *most* people, the point of dating is to find that special person to share your life with.........I know not ALL people date for this reason, but the majority do. So honestly, if tightie whities, body hair, jewelry, ordering salads, or WHATEVER bothers you, you KNOW it bothers you........move on. The annoyance with these small things might be whispering NOW but later down the road they'll be screaming, LOL

Some of those things would get to me, not most though.

-can't hate animals
-no speedo's
-NO pointy shoes (I hate these, mainly because everyone I've met that wears them is a douche)


I don't like rugby boys.
I hate it when I a guy buys me a drink at the pub. It just makes me uncomfortable unless I make sure I buy they're next one.
I'm not into body hair but its not the be all and end all.
I don't think I could be with someone that didn't drink/rarely drank. It wouldn't work.
Can't be shorter than me.
Has to act like a "man"
I don't think I could handle a really emotionally sensitive guy either, I'm really reserved myself so it'd be weird.
Romance is totally wasted on me. I'm too immature for that.

I can be a little weird in my tastes though. I like tall, skinny guys. Usually tradies, usually with brown hair and piercing/tats are a massive plus. I'll also look twice at any dude with long hair and I love big crooked noses, nearly always older than me.

Oh and no piercings would be preferable.
Tattoos I guess are Ok, Ive seen some on guys that are ok but none of that whole body/sleeves business.I like the tats to be able to be covered up if needed..
but still, id rather no tattoos either lol

just personal preference. not a deal breaker or anything, I just dont like the EXTREMES of either tats/piercings

Yeah it really might ruin the mood for me lol

if he switched to bluey's I might be more ok with it. but tighty whities seriously just zap my sexual desire. I can't really explain it they just do

Actually I see Brian A LOT in his underwear lol. It definitely isn't just limited to getting undressed for sex. But I actually asked him before we even met "what kind of underwear do you wear" LOL. it's usually one of those funny questions I ask while "getting to know" someone. So I usually know long before it gets to the hot and heavy getting attached to each other stage lol

Oh also... no tongue rings. They just gross me out. I just can't get my mind past the idea that there might be all kinds of nasty thigns caught in it and stuff... same with nose rings.

Ok, never thought about the 'nasty things caught in them' until NOW!

Thanks cockroach face.........thanks a whole lot :rofl1:

Hmmm toenail biting would definately be up there near the top on my list.

HAHAHAHA You're welcome. Why were you planning on kissing anyone with a tongue ring in the near future? :rofl1:

ok... BARF

I have my tongue pierced twice, apart from occasionally having issues eating noodles and having them wrap around my bars then go down my throat and choking me its not really an issue. I don't have problems with food getting stuck in either piercing and I still brush my tongue straight over them without a problem.

I havn't kissed anyone else with tongue piercings before. I'm curious now...