Did you have a 'dream dog'?
Yes, a Golden Retriever! Never met one I didn't adore and it was my dream breed.
We never got one when I was a kid because:
a.) Dad preferred the more stoic German breeds, GSDs and Schnauzers
b.) Mom thought ALL Goldens jump up ... and Mom is very short. She also very much preferred non-shedders, and had to be talked into the GSDs and the the couple shedding mixed breeds we had.
And did you ever get one?
Yes! Cheyenne ... my Golden Retriever.
I had lived back East, and the more I learned about Goldens, the more I wanted an Okeechobee Golden and saved up for a puppy. Cheyenne was that Golden, a direct descendant of Wochica's Okeechobee Jake. She was my dream dog ... I know I'm biased but she WAS the perfect dog. A few years ago my sister remarked "You're the only person I know who NEVER complains about their dog!" My reply: "I honestly have nothing to complain about!"
Cheyenne lived to make me happy and just never did anything naughty. Did she jump up? Yep ...but only when invited because that's how I trained her. She never jumped up on my Mom, who incidently adored Cheyenne. Cheyenne also changed Dad's mind ... although a typically friendly Golden, she had was no blubbery pushover. She was very nuturing but had a quiet confidence. She moved all the way across the country with me ... along with "her" cats.
Cheyenne is ATRB as of Father's Day of this year. It's strange and difficult to think you may have already had the best dog of your life. As much as it (still) hurts to not have her ... I would do it all over again. She was my "heart dog" for a little over 15 years.
Another Golden? Definitely!!
Currently Golden-less .... but then Cheyenne is an extremely tough act to follow. But I love Goldens too much and someday will have another ... just not right now.