Firstly I acknowledge that I am sad and I try to identify what thoughts I am having.
I'll try and recognise where I am being negative - for instance, am I thinking I'm crap or I did something bad, or someone did something, or I'm thinking theres' no point, or whatever it is.
Then I recognise that those thoughts are what makes me feel like ****.
So I change them round, I acknowledge they're negative, then I dismiss them as wrong. Even if I don't believe it at the time
Then I try and twist it round into something positive.
So...... I am useless.... well, actually, I'm not. I am in uni, I look after my dog well, I am a good friend and I am holding down a job.
You have a son, you're creative, you're doing well in college and you have good friends.
As you can see I am heavily into CBT
Only because I use it on myself and it WORKS. Trust me.
It's a LEARNT behaviour though. You have to teach your mind little tricks on how to get out of the funky state. And like ANY trick, the more you practice, the easier it gets and the better it works.
I have been an emotional person my ENTIRE life, and it wasn't till I was about 24 that I realised a lot about myself and decided to change it.
It's never to late to start again and retrain your mind.
I never took meds, I KNOW for a fact had I actually gone to a doc they'd have given me them.
If you don't think you can retrain your mind, because you're too low, then you might consider them to get you STARTED. Then come off them ASAP.
Best way to combat ANY thing at all is KNOWLEDGE. Read about depression, read about techniques, read about moods, read about CBT and try it.
It took me a long while of just recognising my thoughts before it has become second nature.
Try it.
Along with the rest of the bumpf.
Get a ROUTINE, get sun light (I get extremely low when the days are short and we never get sun anyway), get fresh air and try and exercise (release those endorphines). AVOID caffiene and crappy food.
If you can't get motivated, get someone to HELP you. Call you and take you out for a walk, or cook you a healthy tea.
Meds can be useful, but address everything else 1st.
If you can't, or it doesn't work, by all means, take something, but if you come off, and something happens and you feel low again, you won't have the coping strategies in place to deal with it if you don't do all the above! And it may be hopping from med to none, to med to none.