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I'd think she misinterpreted if Grammy wasn't saying that in nearly every thread you post. But as it is, it does come off as though she has a problem with your personal life. While apparently that's not what she means by it, before her clarification in this thread that was what I thought as well.
A little update... my fiance is calling the courts right now, and I am somewhat nervous as to what they will tell him. I'll have to give another update when he is done.