This might sound silly BUT......
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Karyn, the cuckoo title is starting to ring true here.
Tell me, how are we supposed to act with your last post? You can't hate us one second and then demand that we fall at your feet the next when you offer to help. You were here not too long ago with both barrels blazing and you consider that as trying to maintain friendships, that is keeping the peace here?
ALL OFFERS to help were greatly appreciated and they were weighed in, so just because we didn't fall over ourselves to accept your gracious offer does not mean it went unnoticed.
And you wonder why you get the cold shoulder.... take a look in the mirror and your actions... and tell me how we should all respond to you.
And since I'm on a roll here..
YOU are the one who does not feel welcome here, because you want everyone to see life through your rose-colored lenses. That ain't life. We can't all think and feel and act the same and THANK GOD for that. You keep coming back and forth and drawing out all of our bad qualities... when we already know and accept that everyone here is imperfect and that we all make mistakes. The best thing about this forum is that we accept that. So do us a favor, get over yourself, be a member if you want, but don't expect the red carpet to be rolled out when you're dishing out insults one second and then trying make nice the second, because sooner or later your true colors will shine through...
Tell me, how are we supposed to act with your last post? You can't hate us one second and then demand that we fall at your feet the next when you offer to help. You were here not too long ago with both barrels blazing and you consider that as trying to maintain friendships, that is keeping the peace here?
ALL OFFERS to help were greatly appreciated and they were weighed in, so just because we didn't fall over ourselves to accept your gracious offer does not mean it went unnoticed.
And you wonder why you get the cold shoulder.... take a look in the mirror and your actions... and tell me how we should all respond to you.
And since I'm on a roll here..
YOU are the one who does not feel welcome here, because you want everyone to see life through your rose-colored lenses. That ain't life. We can't all think and feel and act the same and THANK GOD for that. You keep coming back and forth and drawing out all of our bad qualities... when we already know and accept that everyone here is imperfect and that we all make mistakes. The best thing about this forum is that we accept that. So do us a favor, get over yourself, be a member if you want, but don't expect the red carpet to be rolled out when you're dishing out insults one second and then trying make nice the second, because sooner or later your true colors will shine through...
It was seen and NOTED. Just becuase we didnt announce every single plan to the world doesnt mean it was not. It jsut meant we were working in the background which is how I prefered it. I didnt think everyone wanted their info in the matter announced until it was final. So if you are gonna throw a fit because i did not say Ok Karyn you are on the list after so and so then fine. That is your right. But dont expect anyone to want to accept or notice your help after that. I am trying to be civil here after being told basically that I am ungrateful I tried to get the point accross that I was but I am not in the best place right now. Sorry I have been through hell and back this week and am stressed and dealing with so many things that you have no clue. So why dont you think about my position you have no clue WHY i am having to do what I am or anything so why dont you just STOP with the dramatics.
Stop and wonder WHY anyone would want to find things to show you so that you can be hurt by them.
Oh, now THAT'S a real friend.
I think you'd be hard pressed to have found anyone who had ever been yours - or your mother's friend - who stopped caring about you or purposely said anything with the intent of hurting your feelings. Either of you. And anyone who runs back and forth with that kind of bullshit is no friend.
Ever see that movie, Mean Girls? If you haven't, you should. It's totally relevant.
Oh, now THAT'S a real friend.
I think you'd be hard pressed to have found anyone who had ever been yours - or your mother's friend - who stopped caring about you or purposely said anything with the intent of hurting your feelings. Either of you. And anyone who runs back and forth with that kind of bullshit is no friend.
Ever see that movie, Mean Girls? If you haven't, you should. It's totally relevant.
I don't get it. You have to give me a run for the most unwanted first, FB. I should be the one crying here! Nobody even wants my friggin' dog! 
In all honesty though... if you're feeling were/ are hurt, then come clean with the ones who hurt you. Just popping up and throwing nasty remarks around isn't going to make anyone want you to post regularly here again.
I am sorry that you feel such a love-hate relationship for this place.
In all honesty though... if you're feeling were/ are hurt, then come clean with the ones who hurt you. Just popping up and throwing nasty remarks around isn't going to make anyone want you to post regularly here again.
I am sorry that you feel such a love-hate relationship for this place.
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I am going to attempt to clear some things up...
Most everyone knows that last year some members left due to not liking how things are run here. Take it as you all will... that is the gist of it. Some members that wanted to be members of both forums batted back and forth between the two, but the split became larger as tempers rose.
So, now, there are huge rifts between the two.. anyone else feel like they are front and center in a daytime soap opera? I do! Time had passed and we thought all had been well.. each to their own, right? WRONG.
This ongoing saga has GOT TO STOP. I know some members are harassing members that belong to WOD and that it petty, childish and NOT at all what Chazhound is about.
If you don't like Chazhound, as always, you know where the sign out button is. YOU are in control of whether you come to the forums and read what goes on here or not and if you don't like it, then DO NOT participate. It really is as simple as that.
When you take drama from one place to another or vice versa, then you are putting friends, GOOD FRIENDS, in the middle of your petty bullshit and LOOK AT WHAT YOU DO. Good threads, like this, get ruined because of your pettiness. Be a member at both forums if you want, but what happens at the other, stays at the other. We don't care what goes on there and I'm pretty sure WOD doesn't give a rip about what we do here- that is why they made their OWN forum.
You, yes YOU know who you are... you stop your petty he said/she said stuff. This is not grade school. Let us all be.. we are where we want to be.. are you? If not, go find your damned happy spot and leave everyone else alone.
BP- over and out.
Most everyone knows that last year some members left due to not liking how things are run here. Take it as you all will... that is the gist of it. Some members that wanted to be members of both forums batted back and forth between the two, but the split became larger as tempers rose.
So, now, there are huge rifts between the two.. anyone else feel like they are front and center in a daytime soap opera? I do! Time had passed and we thought all had been well.. each to their own, right? WRONG.
This ongoing saga has GOT TO STOP. I know some members are harassing members that belong to WOD and that it petty, childish and NOT at all what Chazhound is about.
If you don't like Chazhound, as always, you know where the sign out button is. YOU are in control of whether you come to the forums and read what goes on here or not and if you don't like it, then DO NOT participate. It really is as simple as that.
When you take drama from one place to another or vice versa, then you are putting friends, GOOD FRIENDS, in the middle of your petty bullshit and LOOK AT WHAT YOU DO. Good threads, like this, get ruined because of your pettiness. Be a member at both forums if you want, but what happens at the other, stays at the other. We don't care what goes on there and I'm pretty sure WOD doesn't give a rip about what we do here- that is why they made their OWN forum.
You, yes YOU know who you are... you stop your petty he said/she said stuff. This is not grade school. Let us all be.. we are where we want to be.. are you? If not, go find your damned happy spot and leave everyone else alone.
BP- over and out.
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