terri schiavo

Gustav

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My Great Grandma had terminal cancer, and she was slowly wasting away. One day she was really bad and the ward nurse called the doctor, my grandma said to him and I quote! "If I was a dog you would take me down the vets and have me put out of my misery!" and the doctor said "You are absolutely right, I wouldn't let a dog suffer like this!"

I would like to die with dignity, but we can't choose how we go can we!
I'm glad that Terri has finally found peace
 

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avenlee said:
Her husband is not making any money for doing this. He has turned down money.
I suggest just letting her go peacefully and everyone just allow the families to grieve in peace. I hope and pray the press will allow them to do just that at this point.
I like to think the best of people, and I have refrained from putting in my two cents because I am very mixed on this matter. Let me start by saying that I know where I am going when I die and I wouldn't want anyone to try and interfere with that, but because of my beliefs I would assume that God would take me when he wanted me anyway and no life support in the world would stop that. That said I feel badly for everyone around, mostly Terrie who had to die a death that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy , slow and painful. over 15 years no less. I think both sides of the arguement had things to lose/gain from her living/dying. I do believe that we should always chose life. that is me. as for Michael , even if he HAD stood to gain money I bet he doesn't want hate mail and chances of being shot at by a zealot for the rest of his life, so I am sure after all this media coverage he decided to "graciously" turn down or donate the money(or atleast tell the press that is the case). I think this was one of those situations you get into and you realize about halfway that you have gone too far with the fighting but because of pride refuse to back down. It sucks. But Terri is dead now and hopefully resting in peace. I just think we all need to learn from this incident. I wouldn't want to live like she lived but neither would I want to die like she died. Go out and sign a living will and make everyone important to you aware of what you want if the tragic should occur. Thats my 2 cents anyway, take it as you will.
 

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Sunnypup said:
I like to think the best of people, and I have refrained from putting in my two cents because I am very mixed on this matter. Let me start by saying that I know where I am going when I die and I wouldn't want anyone to try and interfere with that, but because of my beliefs I would assume that God would take me when he wanted me anyway and no life support in the world would stop that. That said I feel badly for everyone around, mostly Terrie who had to die a death that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy , slow and painful. over 15 years no less. I think both sides of the arguement had things to lose/gain from her living/dying. I do believe that we should always chose life. that is me. as for Michael , even if he HAD stood to gain money I bet he doesn't want hate mail and chances of being shot at by a zealot for the rest of his life, so I am sure after all this media coverage he decided to "graciously" turn down or donate the money(or atleast tell the press that is the case). I think this was one of those situations you get into and you realize about halfway that you have gone too far with the fighting but because of pride refuse to back down. It sucks. But Terri is dead now and hopefully resting in peace. I just think we all need to learn from this incident. I wouldn't want to live like she lived but neither would I want to die like she died. Go out and sign a living will and make everyone important to you aware of what you want if the tragic should occur. Thats my 2 cents anyway, take it as you will.

Point taken and understood. Like I said before, its a touchy issue. We really do not know what has happened in the last 14 years. I work for a lawyer and have a will, living will, and health proxy in place that states my wishes. I would only hope that they would be carried out the same. And by the way, God didn't have the chance to take her when he wanted to, due to the feeding tube...... Anyway, I've tried to stay ot of this 'debate' but have been inclined to contribute.

I truely appreciate and respect your position. Its a very emotional 'both sided' affirmation. I can understand both sides :)
 

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Yes, I thank everyone too for being very mature adults and not turning on people just because of their opinion of this situation. :)
 

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