Right now my fiancée is being difficult :/. I don't know if it was something I said but last night he calls me & asks what time I was coming tomorrow (which was today but it fell through... We were supposed to go to an interview for a joint job but the lady had something up so it's been pushed to tomorrow) I mentioned that I might have to come home because I looked at the wrong day on the calendar (friday I have to be back here because my folks have to stay at my grandmothers condo over night on Friday).
Well long story make it short, he went off saying that I wasn't trying in the relationship & 'if this was the way it was going to be' then just tell him now, I was speechless... I was like WTF??? Now he won't really talk to me & when he calls hes all distant & I don't know what to do... I tried telling him I made a mistake & looked at the calender wrong but he won't listen. I mean i feel like I'm trying the best I can.
Well he says that I never want to be intimate anymore & that I have been pushing him away & crap, & I know I have & he wants me to live there full time aT the track but I can't because I have animals that I have to take care of & I can't ask my parents to care for them too, I'm just so shocked, I'm sorry he feels that way he says that he has been for a while & I didn't know, I can't read ppl's minds.
I convinced him since I am going to interview for a job tomorrow that he's going to help me with, I'm so shocked that I don't know how to feel right now, I know I should be sad but I don't know how to feel right now I'm sure it will hit me soon :'(.
Sorry... Just needed to vent, it always sucks when a relationship goes south.
Well long story make it short, he went off saying that I wasn't trying in the relationship & 'if this was the way it was going to be' then just tell him now, I was speechless... I was like WTF??? Now he won't really talk to me & when he calls hes all distant & I don't know what to do... I tried telling him I made a mistake & looked at the calender wrong but he won't listen. I mean i feel like I'm trying the best I can.
Well he says that I never want to be intimate anymore & that I have been pushing him away & crap, & I know I have & he wants me to live there full time aT the track but I can't because I have animals that I have to take care of & I can't ask my parents to care for them too, I'm just so shocked, I'm sorry he feels that way he says that he has been for a while & I didn't know, I can't read ppl's minds.
I convinced him since I am going to interview for a job tomorrow that he's going to help me with, I'm so shocked that I don't know how to feel right now, I know I should be sad but I don't know how to feel right now I'm sure it will hit me soon :'(.
Sorry... Just needed to vent, it always sucks when a relationship goes south.