Parents..would you be mad?
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Grab, when it was accused that said child was not being fed, yes, he is too eat on demand. And it's not that he throws a fit, he screeches, as is his favorite past time and will even do so as shoving food in his mouth. And having no vehicle right now, my caseworker drives me places. If I were to tell her after spending an hour long trip there, another hour in the doctors office, that I wouldn't take him out to eat because someone may be offended...there would be hell to pay and me and my children would be paying it.
:hail::hail::hail::hail::hail:
Taking a snack for when you're out shouldn't be that difficult. He's one year old. I mean, really? ****, I keep a bag of freeze-dried toddler corn in my car for when I'm hungry and don't have time to stop. Surely there's something you can bring along for your 1-year-old to eat, ESPECIALLY if you know you'll be away from home.
Taking a snack for when you're out shouldn't be that difficult. He's one year old. I mean, really? ****, I keep a bag of freeze-dried toddler corn in my car for when I'm hungry and don't have time to stop. Surely there's something you can bring along for your 1-year-old to eat, ESPECIALLY if you know you'll be away from home.
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My point is that some situations cannot be avoided, plain and simple. If my circumstances were different, I would leave the restaurant however, they aren't. Honestly, a couple of times I felt like crawling under the table and leaving my caseworker to look like the "bad" person but unfortunately, such is life and as said before, things sometimes happen that aren't preventable. If it had been my child she had done that to, I'd had probably have went off on her.
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Have you ever heard of these people have me on a thin sheet of ice and sliding. They have to see that I can provide for my children financially, feed them properly, know what is okay and what is not. I want them out of my home as soon as possible. I'm sure you would too. Either way, I've said my two cents and I'm done here. Have fun trash talking me in chat as you do many other members, I'm sorry people cannot understand life.
I'd love for you all to walk in my shoes for a day and lose every **** right you've worked hard for your life. Including your dogs...I came here tonight to find someone to talk to because I'm having a hell of a hard time right now, instead I found a thread that severely irritated me. And all went down hill...again...such is life...F it.
I'd love for you all to walk in my shoes for a day and lose every **** right you've worked hard for your life. Including your dogs...I came here tonight to find someone to talk to because I'm having a hell of a hard time right now, instead I found a thread that severely irritated me. And all went down hill...again...such is life...F it.
If the situation's that serious, you shouldn't be posting about it on a public message board in the first place. It's unwise.
Second, everyone said what they had to say directly to you already. You're the one who came in and started looking for a fight and accusing us of trash talking people.
I think you taking a break and cooling down is a really, really good idea.
And. . . Starbucks? A good deal? Haha.
Second, everyone said what they had to say directly to you already. You're the one who came in and started looking for a fight and accusing us of trash talking people.
I think you taking a break and cooling down is a really, really good idea.
And. . . Starbucks? A good deal? Haha.
I have worked in daycares, taught at private schools, public schools, pre-schools, and as a private nanny since I was 15. And I have spent A LOT of time working with A LOT children who have autism, among other issues. And I have seen A LOT of 4 year olds who were "big" (as in, 50 lbs or so). My own daughter is 2 and a half and she weighs 38 already. I never said ALL 4 year olds, I said it isn't uncommon. And it's not.
I love kids. I don't think what Fran did was wrong. I do think the parents set their child up for failure and I really question why they thought it was okay to teach him to hug strangers. That's their deal though. If I'm working with my students or kids I'm being paid to take care of, then I'll happily be barfed on (it happens 5-6 times a day right now), snot smeared, etc. Whatever. That's my job and I don't hold it against the kids. If your job isn't to handle kids though, and you're not equipped either in attire or emotionally to handle them acting up, you really shouldn't have to.
I love kids. I don't think what Fran did was wrong. I do think the parents set their child up for failure and I really question why they thought it was okay to teach him to hug strangers. That's their deal though. If I'm working with my students or kids I'm being paid to take care of, then I'll happily be barfed on (it happens 5-6 times a day right now), snot smeared, etc. Whatever. That's my job and I don't hold it against the kids. If your job isn't to handle kids though, and you're not equipped either in attire or emotionally to handle them acting up, you really shouldn't have to.
