If he doesn't love you, and can treat you like this, he isnt worth it.
Doesnt sound like you care right now, but obviously he is an idiot......You deserve better, you deserve someone who loves you and who will treat you right, not just get up and leave without explaination.
It will take a long long time, but you need your friends, family and your dog right now, and it will all work out. I promise. xx
Doesnt sound like you care right now, but obviously he is an idiot......You deserve better, you deserve someone who loves you and who will treat you right, not just get up and leave without explaination.
It will take a long long time, but you need your friends, family and your dog right now, and it will all work out. I promise. xx
I've been in exactly this position before. We were together from a young age, for many years and we had discussed in extensive detail our future children and plans etc. One day suddenly it was "I don't love you anymore," except by text. It's the hardest thing I've ever been through, not going to lie. Just a warning, about 3 months after the event he wanted to start hooking up again. Of course I took this as a fantastic sign, once we're back in that setting he'll remember how much he loves me! But he knew how I felt and his thoughts hadn't changed, he was just using me. It made things so much harder for me, and it did nothing for what little dignity I had left. I don't have much advice to offer sorry because for me it just took time, but I just wanted to warn you about what happened to me. I know nothing makes sense at all, I know it feels like you can't breathe or even that you're too scared to take your next breath, like your whole world is crashing down around you. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. But through it all you will find yourself, and you will find something (whether it be your friends, pets, a hobby, anything) that you can hold on to that will help you through this. Good luck with everything.
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Thank you so much everyone,seriously.I just feel sick,like I'm waiting to wake up or for him to say he didn't mean it.God I need some more dignity and less pride.I can't even tell my family,all I can think is I wanted this to work so bad.My aunt was over doing work with him so I managed to put a brave face on for 4hours,that exhausted me.Luckily he is going to a friends tonight and my friend is going to stay over.Hopefully I can sleep tonight,I need some sleeping pills.I know its ridiculous but all i can think is what is Coco going to think she loves him so much