Intuitive Eating

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Is anyone familiar with this or already does this?

It's something I've been learning about just recently after growing veerrrrrry tired of oscillating between severely restricting my diet and then bingeing.

The concept, basically, is like so:

One, accept your body the way it is now. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes and there's nothing wrong with your body just the way it is.

Two, do away with the mindset that some foods are "good" and some are "bad". It makes the "bad" foods far, far more tempting to you. The more you see foods as simply fuel the more likely you are to eat a balanced diet.

Three, eat when you're hungry, eat exactly what you're hungry for and stop eating when you are satisfied.

Sounds simple. It's not!

I've been reading a few books on the topic for a couple of weeks now and it's definitely a challenge. The philosophy is a lot more introspective than I though at first. Being a serial dieter I figured I would just learn the "rules", follow them to the letter and be "cured". But there really aren't any rules. You simply eat "on demand". If you want to eat when you're not hungry you are likely using the food to distract yourself from an emotion you don't want to tackle, or to distract yourself from facing an emotion that's difficult for you.

I'm just a beginner in all of this, but I have to say my favourite part so far has been "legalizing" all foods. The best way to do this, apparently, is to stock your home with HUGE quantities of foods you loves. Yes, cake, ice cream, chocolate, chips, included.

The logic is that when you invite these foods into your kitchen, accept that they are not intrinsically "bad" or "good" and then prove to yourself that you can be trusted with these foods (by eating them when you want to and seeing that you will eventually stop on your own - before the food runs out), they will eventually be less appealing to you and will make up a smaller part of your overall diet than you would think if you were to eat completely unrestricted.

There's obviously a lot more to it than this, but I wonder if anyone else has grown tired of dieting and obsessing about food and has come across this concept?
 

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Yes. I haven't heard it called that, but I have read about it, and I have tried it.

I did it for a couple of weeks. It isn't as easy as it sounds!! It takes learning to recognize the feeling of being satisfied rather than full and of being hungry instead of wanting something to eat for any other reason.

I did lose weight following it, and I'm trying to do it again, but I have to remind myself that's what I'm doing!!
 
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I grew up being hungry a lot. It wasn't uncommon to go days without eating. I'm a binge eater.. well, I don't throw it up afterwards though. As long as food is available to me, I will eat until I'm almost in pain because my stomach is so full. Part of the reason I gained a lot of weight when I moved in with Dustin and we actually ate regular meals.

However.. this idea doesn't actually sound that terrible. Here, we share the cupboard space with Dustin's grandparents. We have our food and they have theirs. They always have sooooo much food. Having it always available to me HAS decreased some of my binge eating, though I'm still learning to eat only what I need. And ALWAYS having cakes, chips, pop, ice cream in the house .. well, I stopped eating chips and stopped drinking pop before I moved in, but they definitely don't look so much like the really rare treat as they would when I was growing up. I can certainly see where this method makes sense.
 
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One thing I have learned is that QUALITY is the key.

Instead of a bag of crappy Hershey's or Nestle's chocolate, or common ice cream, a small quantity of really excellent chocolate or a small container of Godiva or Ben & Jerry's satisfies me with much, much less.

No "fake foods." Real cream. Real butter. Whole milk. Small quantities are satisfying and I don't go prowling around for something because the craving isn't sated.
 

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Snacking adds weight . Stick to healthy meals and quit when you are satisfied !
 

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Actually it's healthier to eat when you're hungry and smaller meals during the day I think. The problem is that when you snack you tend to go for the bad stuff instead of the healthy one.
 
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Also.. dinner is usually the biggest meal. If people would instead make breakfast their biggest meal and skimp out on dinner like they do breakfast, I think there'd also be less tendency to pack on the pounds. (okay, so I'm a hypocrite.. but its a good idea and maybe one day I'll listen to myself :p)
 
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People have different metabolisms -- well, now there's a :doh: lol!

I've often thought if we'd look back at our ancestral diets and build our own eating habits around those we'd be healthier and maintain a more ideal weight.
 
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Nope. I tend to avoid reading about diets, lol. I end up feeling the need to try each and every one out, even though I KNOW what works for me :eek: Ah, the search for the easier fix :wall:

I think the perfect diet for me would be red meat, salads, chocolate, and lots of wild sex to burn calories and build muscle.
 

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the paleo diet... isnt' a diet perse.. more of a way of eating. Its kinda the equiv of the raw diet for humans. Its about eating a more ancestral diet. So lean meats, fruits veggies etc. But no grains or dairy.
 

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One thing I have learned is that QUALITY is the key.

Instead of a bag of crappy Hershey's or Nestle's chocolate, or common ice cream, a small quantity of really excellent chocolate or a small container of Godiva or Ben & Jerry's satisfies me with much, much less.

No "fake foods." Real cream. Real butter. Whole milk. Small quantities are satisfying and I don't go prowling around for something because the craving isn't sated.
I never buy the good (read expensive) ice cream.. but I got 2 things of hagen dazs as it was on sale and I seem to be better about eating some, and then beign happier cause it was super tasty...
 

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I have to admit, I'm surprised by the positive reception to the concept!

Everyone I've told about my cupboard of mounds of chocolate, cookies, chips, etc has looked at me like I have a screw loose.

It's been an interesting adventure so far. I'm able to tune into my hunger cues fairly well, and I can often figure out what it is I want to eat...but I'm having a hard time stopping when I'm full/satisfied. I can tell when I'm satisfied, I just have no experience with actually stopping at that point!

But it's all a learning process. And such a huge part of this philosophy is that beating yourself up about what you eat is totally unkind to yourself. Whether you eat too much, eat the wrong food at the wrong time....it's just food. You need to relearn how to fuel your body without judging yourself. And it takes a long time for someone who's based their sense of self-worth on how well they have adhered to strict eating habits and a certain body size.

It's certainly an interesting adventure. :)
 

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One thing I have learned is that QUALITY is the key.

Instead of a bag of crappy Hershey's or Nestle's chocolate, or common ice cream, a small quantity of really excellent chocolate or a small container of Godiva or Ben & Jerry's satisfies me with much, much less.

No "fake foods." Real cream. Real butter. Whole milk. Small quantities are satisfying and I don't go prowling around for something because the craving isn't sated.
Yeah, this is something that's mentioned a lot in the stuff I'm reading. It's actually been proven that you'll end up eating more in the long run if you eat something that doesn't quite satisfy you (ie. the cheaper, crappier version of what you really want) so you might as well eat the stuff you want in the first place.
 

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Yes. I haven't heard it called that, but I have read about it, and I have tried it.

I did it for a couple of weeks. It isn't as easy as it sounds!! It takes learning to recognize the feeling of being satisfied rather than full and of being hungry instead of wanting something to eat for any other reason.

I did lose weight following it, and I'm trying to do it again, but I have to remind myself that's what I'm doing!!
I'm finding one of the strange things is that I'm spending as much time thinking about food, hunger, what to eat, etc as I was when I was obsessing with dieting/bingeing. But I think it becomes more natural after a few months of it.
 

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