I think those are honest questions. Why does questioning someone have to be mocking. If the rules are there to make you happy and they do great. If you have them to make yourself safer.. then what?
Its like talking to people about religion, IME those with the least faith are those who freak out about questions. I have some very devout friends who are not of the same religious beliefs and they answer to the best of their knowledge. I love knowledge (hence being a scientist) Often I want to ask a zillion questions. This is the only place where people seem to go OMG questions.. they must be mocking me.
And the questions weren't even aimed that much at Cali, I know Romy said she has similar rules, and she even answered my question (thanks romy!) I think M&M discussed it too. And I didn't keep asking questions after I got answers (which is rude). I went cool and moved on.
So if you think asking questions you want answers too from people who are actually in a position to be able to give them to you is ridiculing. Well I am sorry and don't intend to change I had a great convo on here a few months back about being in biology yet not believing in evolution. Which I admit I find mind boggelling. However it was a very polite converstation where I asked loads of questions and got some great answers. I still think its a bit weird, but I can totally respect their opinions and now have a deeper understanding of how someone can hold two separate and opposing beliefs.
I think questions, and questioning is a great idea. If you or anyone doesn't like it they are free not to answer, or participate. But I have learnt a great many things from chaz and I am not going to let over sensitive people who look for snark when it isn't there stop me from doing what I am doing. I am sorry but I don't care that much about what ppl on the internet think of me
Its like talking to people about religion, IME those with the least faith are those who freak out about questions. I have some very devout friends who are not of the same religious beliefs and they answer to the best of their knowledge. I love knowledge (hence being a scientist) Often I want to ask a zillion questions. This is the only place where people seem to go OMG questions.. they must be mocking me.
And the questions weren't even aimed that much at Cali, I know Romy said she has similar rules, and she even answered my question (thanks romy!) I think M&M discussed it too. And I didn't keep asking questions after I got answers (which is rude). I went cool and moved on.
So if you think asking questions you want answers too from people who are actually in a position to be able to give them to you is ridiculing. Well I am sorry and don't intend to change I had a great convo on here a few months back about being in biology yet not believing in evolution. Which I admit I find mind boggelling. However it was a very polite converstation where I asked loads of questions and got some great answers. I still think its a bit weird, but I can totally respect their opinions and now have a deeper understanding of how someone can hold two separate and opposing beliefs.
I think questions, and questioning is a great idea. If you or anyone doesn't like it they are free not to answer, or participate. But I have learnt a great many things from chaz and I am not going to let over sensitive people who look for snark when it isn't there stop me from doing what I am doing. I am sorry but I don't care that much about what ppl on the internet think of me