Well, it has taken me a LONNG time to accept that what is right for me, is not right for anyone else.
for example, when it came to girls with multiple sex partners or open relationships.. my first reaction used to be to feel bad for her. You see, I always thought that that kind of thing was SAD or a result of other issues...
but through meeting a few of these girls (chaz and otherwise) I've come to realize that it WORKS for them, its not daddy issues or confidence issues or something sad.. its just DIFFERENT.
Now, I have also come to realize that these types of things could never work for me regardless lol. My brain doesn't compute sex not being an intimate romantic thing and that's ok with me.
Sex is special to me. It's something that goes hand in hand with a relationship, with someone I love etc...
People that know me GET IT, it makes perfect sense that I think this way because I carry the same "romantic view" to basically all aspects of my life
:rofl1: so it doesn't come as much of a surprise.
My best friend thinks sex is simply a really fun activity.she treats it sort of as some people would treat... jet skiing for example! lol
Its just a fun ride and as long as you are safe about it and the other person is
on board then..its all good! lol and I support her, because I'm her best friend and just because we think of sex in different ways doesn't mean that sex for both of us isn't a good thing!
as I like to say..
Sex in general is just like having a penis! You are free to have one and do whatever you want with it, but don't try to force it down other peoples throats! lol its rude!
(this saying also works well for religion Lol )