How many sexual partners have you had?

[Picklepaige]

Three. Two were boyfriends, the latest one was just a friend.

The first boyfriend I regret with all my soul, as he is pretty much the worst thing in my life and he stalks me. The other two I can happily remember.

 

[Maxy24]

None, and I have no desire to. Nor do I have any desire to date. Which of course makes me a freak and would make my mother send me off to a therapist to be "cured". But I'm only 19, so I guess it could change, but really the thought horrifies me.

 

[GipsyQueen]

None, and I have no desire to. Nor do I have any desire to date. Which of course makes me a freak and would make my mother send me off to a therapist to be "cured". But I'm only 19, so I guess it could change, but really the thought horrifies me.

Don't worry, everyones different I'm 19 and even though Ive had Boyfriends - I feel no desire to have one at the moment. I like my life that way it is. I'd rather just find the one

 

[Paige]

I'd rather not find any. Boyfriends are not my cup of tea. But dude friends that like to bump uglies? I am down for that!

 

[JessLough]

Uno. Apparently not enough for Chaz, so here are some more letters

 

[Upendi&Mina]

Four. Three of which were boyfriends and one of which I'm engaged to.

 

[Lossalfling]

Ummm no comment I always told my daughters that their bodies where theirs to make the choice. That I would only hope they would waite till they knew it was right in their minds and they cared for that * first* person because the sex would suck...LOL First times normally do but they would atleast have the care/love of the other to make it special.
Numbers are just that, something for a mean person to toss at you. Only you can judge if it was good or not. Nothing at all wrong with a good romp in the sack, lowers blood pressue, relieves stress

 

[Lossalfling]

five, my husband included.

And i am glad i had experiences with others before having to deal with the same dick for the rest of my life.

roflmao

 

[jess2416]

Just thought you all should know, I had some this morning, which ended my 2011 dry spell... LOL

 

[CharlieDog]

Lmao Jess!!!

One. And I'm planning on marrying him in June.

 

[Juicy]

More than some, less than others.

It is double figures, and I can account most of it to one period in my life when I was hedonistic and care free

If I am honest, I don't know the exact figure.

I don't regret any of it. Nor would I say it's something I'd recommend. Was just something I've done.

Sex is definitely best with someone you really have feelings for, you can't beat it.

^this

 

[LilahRoot]

I'd rather not find any. Boyfriends are not my cup of tea. But dude friends that like to bump uglies? I am down for that!

I don't know why, but every time you type "bump uglies" I burst out in a fit of laughter. :rofl1:

 

[LilahRoot]

It's hard not to feel like you should be ashamed (even if you're not) when society judges women on how many sexual partners they have. It's perfectly fine (generally speaking) for men to go all crazy and do it with tons of women, but women have to be prim and proper and save themselves for marriage or "the one". It irritates me and makes me feel like I have to say that I'm not ashamed of my past choices. I feel the same way - it's just sex. If we weren't intended to do it we wouldn't have the urge.

I couldn't agree with you more.

Aaaand this thread is reminding me that I won't see my husband until May... :yikes:

 

[Whisper]

LMAO Jess! You're right, I really should have known. Now that I do, I can finally rest.

 

[mrose_s]

I do wonder what it would be like to have sex with someone that you were actually in a relationship with and when you care about each other, thats something I HAVN'T tried yet. lol
btw, my first time wasn't too bad. I was rather intoxicated but I have very clear memories of just thinking "this is AWESOME! I should have been doing this years ago"

 

[Bigpoodleperson]

Are we even allowed to discuss these sorts of things on Chaz?

I would think not because I started a thread about how often one has sex, and it got pulled. No PM back or anything. I guess it just depends who you are for what you can post.

 

[Dizzy]

I think it would be interesting to have an 18+ section - there is one on a forum I go on (or used to... not for a long time). You had to PM a mod for access rights.

After all, there are a lot of adults on the forum, who want to discuss adult things.

 

[noludoru]

I would think not because I started a thread about how often one has sex, and it got pulled. No PM back or anything. I guess it just depends who you are for what you can post.

We've discussed far worse than that here and there. . .

 

[jess2416]

LMAO Jess! You're right, I really should have known. Now that I do, I can finally rest.

LMAO I know right

 

[puppydog]

For those that have waited until marriage and those that want to wait until marriage.

Does the concept of NEVER knowing what other men are like not worry you? I know my mother says she wonders.