Okay, a friend and I have an ongoing debate and she told me to poll it, so I'm going to toss it out here where there are the least number of people who know the backstory. I just want to see the question answered for what it is, without influence by the key players. And for that reason, I will also try to be as generic with my descriptions as possible.
The question is: Which of these two scenarios is ultimately going to be more date-able?
Scenario A: The Parent Factor
In this situation, the person (an adult) shares a domicile with a parent. It is not a lives-with-parents situation where the parent supports the offspring. Both parties share equal responsibility for bills and such, have separate rooms, and do not have any overt influence over the other. Visitors are welcome, and both parties agree not to interfere in the decisions of the other, except where those decisions affect the home generally. It is, in most respects, a standard roommate situation. The primary difference is that the roommates are related.
Scenario B: The Private Party
In this situation, the person lives with friends, occupying a spare bedroom in exchange for work at the house. Rent being a trade-for-work agreement makes this situation financially agreeable, but the friends own the house and make the decisions, and they are extremely private. Occupant is not allowed to have visitors, nor are they allowed to tell others where they live. Occupant's work at the home takes up the majority of their evening/weekend (ie, off-work) hours.
Given that both scenarios apply to the same person, and all other factors are the same, which would you rather date?
The question is: Which of these two scenarios is ultimately going to be more date-able?
Scenario A: The Parent Factor
In this situation, the person (an adult) shares a domicile with a parent. It is not a lives-with-parents situation where the parent supports the offspring. Both parties share equal responsibility for bills and such, have separate rooms, and do not have any overt influence over the other. Visitors are welcome, and both parties agree not to interfere in the decisions of the other, except where those decisions affect the home generally. It is, in most respects, a standard roommate situation. The primary difference is that the roommates are related.
Scenario B: The Private Party
In this situation, the person lives with friends, occupying a spare bedroom in exchange for work at the house. Rent being a trade-for-work agreement makes this situation financially agreeable, but the friends own the house and make the decisions, and they are extremely private. Occupant is not allowed to have visitors, nor are they allowed to tell others where they live. Occupant's work at the home takes up the majority of their evening/weekend (ie, off-work) hours.
Given that both scenarios apply to the same person, and all other factors are the same, which would you rather date?