How can you find a guy when you never really go 'out'?
You stop looking. That is really all there is to it.
Every single one of my relationships has been when I wasn't looking for one. They're surprisingly easy to fall into.
I found mine while visiting a chazzer, actually. There was a huge age difference and I had zero interest in him, but we bonded over cars and kittens and ended up in a FWBs thing. When he got into a major car accident I flipped out and realized that just
maybe I had more than friendly feelings for him. He grew on me, and I never noticed it happening. We've been through so much together that I can't quite imagine life without him. I didn't realize it was possible for me to love another person unconditionally.
I keep telling myself I should take a class of some sort and see what happens. I'm just so painfully shy and my anxiety sky rockets just thinking about trying something new like that, all on my own. But maybe I will push myself to do that, now that I have a job with a consistent schedule so that I CAN sign up for something.
Do it! Sign up for something involved that you can concentrate on. If you're focusing on learning something new, it will reduce your anxiety, and by the time you get better at whatever you're learning, you'll be comfortable with the people there.
I found Adam when nolu and I were driving back from Georgia in my car. He drove by us as we were merging onto 95 from 495, lol. There's a long rest of the story to go with that.
That story is AWESOME. I'm going to tell it to my next S4 customer and just be like, "It's not just a car, or even an amazing performance vehicle. Hot chicks will be chasing
you down when you drive it." :rofl1:
Also, we need to hang out. ASAP.