I don't know
I am guilty of the same sometimes so I guess I shouldn't talk. I am guilty of looking at a less than ideal situation and putting my own personal spin on it because I have not had to make too many big decisions (except for one and I am always defending that to the death)
but I can think of a thread for most people in THIS thread where they have made a less than ideal decision and have been attacked in the same way and have DEFENDED Themselves the same way... yet they condemn someone else for making a mistake.
like I said I am also guilty of this... it's hard not to judge or say "=I would do this you suck".... but we are ALL WRONG. if you have never made a mistake then feel free to judge... but NONE of us are free from mistake. we have all made some really bad decisions.
I just don't believe we should be forever condemned because of them. perhaps we should be momentarily spanked for them... but to never EVER be allowed to come back without the constant ridicule... it's stupid. Get OVER yourselves.
I am guilty of the same sometimes so I guess I shouldn't talk. I am guilty of looking at a less than ideal situation and putting my own personal spin on it because I have not had to make too many big decisions (except for one and I am always defending that to the death)
but I can think of a thread for most people in THIS thread where they have made a less than ideal decision and have been attacked in the same way and have DEFENDED Themselves the same way... yet they condemn someone else for making a mistake.
like I said I am also guilty of this... it's hard not to judge or say "=I would do this you suck".... but we are ALL WRONG. if you have never made a mistake then feel free to judge... but NONE of us are free from mistake. we have all made some really bad decisions.
I just don't believe we should be forever condemned because of them. perhaps we should be momentarily spanked for them... but to never EVER be allowed to come back without the constant ridicule... it's stupid. Get OVER yourselves.