I think he is cheating...
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RoxyBoxer said:
lol ahhah sorry i had to laugh. I live an hour from montreal 
Im not a frenchie thank the lord but l do speak french and its not nice to say but french people hate english people. i get alot further in stores and anywhere when i speak french.
Im not a frenchie thank the lord but l do speak french and its not nice to say but french people hate english people. i get alot further in stores and anywhere when i speak french.
I would have your daughter stay at a friend or relatives house while you talk this out. Maybe have your brother(s) there if he tries any crap. That is the only way I got out the relationship with my ex my brothers had to come over when I left to keep him off of me so that I could get out without getting beat up.
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i agree germanshepargurl... that is the only actual way to get out of this without possible violence... guys that cheat no offense to the guys will do anything to keep what they think is theirs and still want to have their cake and eat it too...
but it doesnt work like that... make sure you have someone there while you talk to him so you dont have to worry about violence... or i willc ome up there..so please do something or he will continue and it will hurt worse later on..
but it doesnt work like that... make sure you have someone there while you talk to him so you dont have to worry about violence... or i willc ome up there..so please do something or he will continue and it will hurt worse later on..
ohhhhh no! nobody hurts my lisa!!!! I'll come over there and for the first time in my life, fight for real (as opposed to stage fighting)!!!! Seriously though Lisa, if ever you need somewhere to go and aren't able to make it to Heather's, my door is wide open!!! We even have a spare room! You'd love it, the walls are a colage of dog and horse pictures! LOL Or if you need an extra pair of eyes to watch him, I could "happen to go to the store he's claiming to go to". I'm pretty sure I'll be in stratford next weekend...
You'd love it, the walls are a colage of dog and horse pictures! LOL Or if you need an extra pair of eyes to watch him, I could "happen to go to the store he's claiming to go to". I'm pretty sure I'll be in stratford next weekend...
oc_spirit said:
ohhhhh no! nobody hurts my lisa!!!! I'll come over there and for the first time in my life, fight for real (as opposed to stage fighting)!!!! Seriously though Lisa, if ever you need somewhere to go and aren't able to make it to Heather's, my door is wide open!!! We even have a spare room! You'd love it, the walls are a colage of dog and horse pictures! LOL Or if you need an extra pair of eyes to watch him, I could "happen to go to the store he's claiming to go to". I'm pretty sure I'll be in stratford next weekend...
You'd love it, the walls are a colage of dog and horse pictures! LOL Or if you need an extra pair of eyes to watch him, I could "happen to go to the store he's claiming to go to". I'm pretty sure I'll be in stratford next weekend...
unknown name private number... those sometimes show up with certain cellphones. Make sure you pick up the phone first next time...
about the whole child thing if you were to seperate. Unless someone goes to court you guys both have what's called " Equal rights to custody" that's how it worked for my hubby when he and his ex split up, they were never married either.
He would never be able to take the child away from you and give her to his parents that simply doesn't work that way, you could simply march over there and get your child and they HAVE to give her to you or else you can call the cops if they don't. He'd have to go for custody and wouldn't never get more than joint or shared or split unless he can prove you're an unfit mother which i'm sure you're not so nothing to worry about. Custody and primary residence are usually awarded to the primary caregiver of the child, which from your story I understand is you. and the other parent would get visitation rights.
He could never quit his job, well he could but then what? wellfare... and they will MAKE him go and get a job.
Of course I hope you'll never need any of this info, I just hope your man starts to treat you a bit better!
about the whole child thing if you were to seperate. Unless someone goes to court you guys both have what's called " Equal rights to custody" that's how it worked for my hubby when he and his ex split up, they were never married either.
He would never be able to take the child away from you and give her to his parents that simply doesn't work that way, you could simply march over there and get your child and they HAVE to give her to you or else you can call the cops if they don't. He'd have to go for custody and wouldn't never get more than joint or shared or split unless he can prove you're an unfit mother which i'm sure you're not so nothing to worry about. Custody and primary residence are usually awarded to the primary caregiver of the child, which from your story I understand is you. and the other parent would get visitation rights.
He could never quit his job, well he could but then what? wellfare... and they will MAKE him go and get a job.
Of course I hope you'll never need any of this info, I just hope your man starts to treat you a bit better!
Sorry so late, but after reading the above, you want this guy around...why???
Is that really the best situation for your daughter? A dissinterested and threatening father figure, not to mention a man her mother can't trust. This isn't painting a very pretty picture for her future relationships with men...I know it's none of my business, but please look at the big picture here. You and your daughter deserve better. Don't let his threats way heavily on you. He can't just leagally take her away and give her to his parents, that would never stand in court. After how you've made him sound I don't think he would waste his energy trying...
take care....
Lisa I have to agree with Pug on this one. I dont know what state your in, but I think in most states unless a mom can be proven beyond a doubt she is unfit then custody goes to the mom. You have sole and joint custody. If he thinks he can get away with not working to avoid child support wonder if he would like to have a few months accomodations curtosity of your states penial institution. Courts look very low on men who think that since they can have their way then its no way especially when it comes to child support. I know you love him, but is this anyway to start off? Maybe what you should start doing is putting your excess money into some type of savings account away from him so that if it comes down to it, you have money stashed away that you could use to leave if needed.
