The phone rang about a half hour ago.It came up private name Unknown number.Norm ran into the bedroom to answer the call.Than he quickly got ready and I asked where are you going he said to the store.The store is only a minute away.He has cheated before and I think he may be again.He also has not been looking for any from me too.Which we normally do everyday.It has been a week.I am really worried and upset.I dont know what to do.
I think he is cheating...
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Lisa-- you are not pretty enough??? You are drop dead gorgous hon and if he cannot see that then he does not deserve you. Do not let him run you down, you are a good, kind, beautiful person and he needs to respect that. How the heck does he expect to show Gwenn the right way in life if he is not following the proper path? If he is cheating leave him. Bring Sasha and Gwenn and come to my place, now! You are always welcome and you and your daughter will be safe. Do not allow him to be nasty to you, it pisses me off to hear that when he is calling you names. No one that truely loves you and your daughter would do that. No one that truely loves you would cheat or even give the impression that he is cheating. Marc never ever had a problem telling me where he was going when he leaves or left. If I called him he was there too!
Keep your cool and get to the bottom of this..........I wouldn't worry as the call came in at home... could be a surprise. If he was fooling around, I think the planning would be away from the house with a great " story" behind it. My husband of almost 50 years knew that any hanky-pank behind my back would be " once shame on you --- twice, shame on me " Neither he nor I were unfaithful to our wedding vows. You do need to talk... with a child and yet no commitment , now is the time to decide. He may be imature and wants out. Heads up !!! We're here for you !!!
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How tall are you? Not that it's important but I'm just curious why you think you are heavy. I weighed that once upon a time, probably back in middle school. lol (i'm 5'9) Wow every day huh?! How could he have the energy for another woman? Seriously have a discussion about it, if he's not reassuring and apologetic for making you even have a doubt, well you know what to do for the best.
5 foot 2.I am alittle full figured in my chest though.I would have left him the first time but I found out a long time after.I kicked the girls ass as she was my best friend.I told him if he ever did it again I would Lorraina Bobbit him.We are-were planning on getting engaged and than married within about 2 years.It is expensive which is why we havent yet.We looked at rings too but he is having one custom made in January.I dont know his story is very fishy.I would follow him but I cant drive.I have a arm injury that makes it very difficult and painfull.
If you are suspicious of a phone call there must be more to back up your concerns. My hubby gets phone calls from women that I answer, they just ask for him, and I say sure, hold on....
I am not worried at all. I believe he has been and always will be true to me.
If I ever would be wrong, then it would be his fault and he would loose the best thing that ever happened to him.
But I must say, if I caught him cheating once......he would not get a second chance!!!
Once a cheater.............Always a cheater.
No offense.
I am not worried at all. I believe he has been and always will be true to me.
If I ever would be wrong, then it would be his fault and he would loose the best thing that ever happened to him.
But I must say, if I caught him cheating once......he would not get a second chance!!!
Once a cheater.............Always a cheater.
No offense.
None taken.I always said that too till it happened to me.I dont mind girls calling but to run into the bedroom to talk privatly and than rush out supposidly to the store which is a minute away,come back with nothing and been gone for 45 minutes to a hour is very strange.Plus we havent had sex in a week.Normal is at least once a day up to 4 a day.
What happens when you try to initiate? Is there anything going on at his work that might be stressing him out?
I know you are suspicious because he cheated before and you have every right to. BUT I am also a firm believer to not get worked up until you have firm evidence. I trust my bf for two reasons: 1. I really do know/believe that he loves me and is more than satisified with me 2. I don't want to be the jealous gf that gets worked up all the time.
Which you aren't because he has cheated in the past. However, my advice would be to confront him. Just have a conversation don't jump down his throat... yet. Try to get your sex life back on schedule. If things are routine spice it up! You're doing pretty good for six years so you must be creative
I know you are suspicious because he cheated before and you have every right to. BUT I am also a firm believer to not get worked up until you have firm evidence. I trust my bf for two reasons: 1. I really do know/believe that he loves me and is more than satisified with me 2. I don't want to be the jealous gf that gets worked up all the time.
Which you aren't because he has cheated in the past. However, my advice would be to confront him. Just have a conversation don't jump down his throat... yet. Try to get your sex life back on schedule. If things are routine spice it up! You're doing pretty good for six years so you must be creative