I think he is cheating...
- Thread starter AmberwayGSD
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4 TIMES A DAY 
!!! I envy you! The guy I was with before I met my husband cheated on me left and right. I met him when I was a freshmen in high school and he was 20 and I fell completely in love with him from day one. I didn't care that he cheated on me because I felt I couldn't find anyone better. I was with him when I was 13 until I was 18. We dealt with a lot of stuff and finally after living with him and being engaged to him I moved out realizing that I could not raise children with this man because I couldn't let my children think that this is how life was suppose to be. I was very unhappy after leaving him but shortly after I met my now husband and I knew right away that I could raise children the way they should be raised. If you really think he is cheating then I would pack up yours and your daughter's stuff and when he comes home from work ask him exactly where he went tonight and who he went there with. If he can't look you in the eye or he still says the store then I would take your daughter away and think about things. Tell him if he can't commit to counseling or being honest with you than you can't commit to him. There are better fish in the sea than a cheater!!!
!!! I envy you! The guy I was with before I met my husband cheated on me left and right. I met him when I was a freshmen in high school and he was 20 and I fell completely in love with him from day one. I didn't care that he cheated on me because I felt I couldn't find anyone better. I was with him when I was 13 until I was 18. We dealt with a lot of stuff and finally after living with him and being engaged to him I moved out realizing that I could not raise children with this man because I couldn't let my children think that this is how life was suppose to be. I was very unhappy after leaving him but shortly after I met my now husband and I knew right away that I could raise children the way they should be raised. If you really think he is cheating then I would pack up yours and your daughter's stuff and when he comes home from work ask him exactly where he went tonight and who he went there with. If he can't look you in the eye or he still says the store then I would take your daughter away and think about things. Tell him if he can't commit to counseling or being honest with you than you can't commit to him. There are better fish in the sea than a cheater!!!Thank you Julie.I will have a long talk with him in the morning once he is done work.My heart hurts.I hate this stress.I like our sex life but if he aint getting it from me it makes me wonder where he is getting it from.I love him with all my heart but will not stand for this.If I have to leave Rosco will have to go though which I would hate.Sasha will have a temporary home with a friend but Rosco is another story.Plus I dont work so I would have to go on Social assistance to be able to survive.
If he isn't getting from you than you don't know who he's getting it with (or maybe you do) and what those people could be carrying (STD). I'd have to go on welfare if I ever left my husband too, you have to do what you have to do to make sure your daughter have as stable of a life as she can with or without him. I'm sure you can find someone else, I have confidence in that.
Don't let him get the best of you. He cheated once. He pushed your limits, and he was forgiven. Many MANY women wouldn't have given him that chance, and if he was dumb enough to push his luck a second time, then he isn't even worth your tears or concern. No one ever deserves to be betrayed, and I hope you know that you are worth more than that. If he can't satisfy your needs beyond the bedroom, then you don't need him. I know it's hard, but just keep your head on your shoulders, don't back down, and stand up for yourself. If not for yourself, do it for your child.
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Ok it is 7 am and I am up. Lisa chech in with me please I am very worried. Oh and by the way Rosco is welcome here too, I just thought he was Norms and that is why I did not mention him. You, your daughter and any of your critters [no snakes in the house] but anything else is welcome here. Bring your clothes and whatever else, and get your butt here anytime. You are always welcome here! No matter what day, what time!!!
I hope things got solved for you! I hope you managed to have a talk with him.
In my oppinion because he cheated on you once, and you forgave him and stuck with him, you have EVERY right to know EVERYTHING that is going on in his life. Any phonecalls, any emails, any outings without you etc. He left you feeling like you might not be able to trust him because of his actions and so he should be more than willing to show he isn't hiding anything from you and make you feel safe and secure and like you can trust him again.
Make yourself and your child #1!! and dont be worried about having to go on welfare, also don't forget there is a little something called Childsupport and Spousal support. Even if you are not married if you are living common-law then you still have the right to ask for spousal support. It's there for a reason!
But of course I hope that everything has worked out okay and he has a logical explanation as to why he was acting so strange and left.
In my oppinion because he cheated on you once, and you forgave him and stuck with him, you have EVERY right to know EVERYTHING that is going on in his life. Any phonecalls, any emails, any outings without you etc. He left you feeling like you might not be able to trust him because of his actions and so he should be more than willing to show he isn't hiding anything from you and make you feel safe and secure and like you can trust him again.
Make yourself and your child #1!! and dont be worried about having to go on welfare, also don't forget there is a little something called Childsupport and Spousal support. Even if you are not married if you are living common-law then you still have the right to ask for spousal support. It's there for a reason!
But of course I hope that everything has worked out okay and he has a logical explanation as to why he was acting so strange and left.
Well the verdict is in.He says he was driving around to a few different stores to try and find his favorite magazine,whick I can believe.I would stilll like to know who called that he had to run into the bedroom for though,Its not like there was too much noise to hear the call.So I dont think he is cheating at the moment maybe he just isnt feeling like having sex.I love him and I want to stay but if he does end up cheating ever I will leave.For now things are ok.When he gets up I will talk to him about some concilling at my church.