Sorry, but this thread is soooo loooong. I hope I didn't miss anything. But just skipping through the last few pages, I don't "think" I did. You may not want to hear this, but I think he IS cheating. Or if he's not "cheating", he's wanting another life than one with you and your child you have together. For instance, why aren't you married yet if you already have a child together? Why is he getting phone calls at home who hide their phone number and he doesn't tell you who it is or what's going on? Then he leaves to "go to the store" only to come back empty handed saying he couldn't find the magazine he wanted. And you think he's on the up and up? He may not have been meeting someone outside of your relationship, but someone to drive around forever to find a magazine obviously has some time he wants to kill outside his home. And I'm sorry to be blunt, but sex EVERY day and sometimes up to 4x/day?? Sounds like he needs a sex fix, to me. Another big red flag. The KICKER for me was when he brought up quitting his job and not supporting your child. Good Lord, what is he thinking!!! Or you! Love ya, and just want you to open your eyes...