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AllieMackie

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Reggin - Thanks for coming back and sharing the rescue info. That was what I was upset about. I withdraw my previous statement. And I hope it goes without saying that I hope your situation is better soon, and that Reg gets somewhere better soon.
 

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I highly doubt their relationship was always that way. Things were going well for them just a little while ago, saving money, talking about moving out of state, etc. Things change
And I fail to see how not being married has anything to do with being irresponsible
 
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My heart breaks for this young woman who has found herself in an untenable situation, along with one child and another on the way.

Regardless of anything that has transpired, I wish you the best possible outcome. Maybe one small step in the right direction is getting your guy Reg taken care of. Please keep coming back and letting us know how you are if you can.
Thank you very very much. Nobody has a clue as to what I am going through and what I have been through. I'd say I've been to hell and back, but I'm not back yet. If only more people could be more understanding and maybe some can even relate. It makes it that much worse that I am 8 months pregnant. There have been times where I was so stressed out and hit rock bottom that I was sure I was going to lose this baby to sudden miscarriage. I am 8 months pregnant and have been in physical fights with a man who is 5 times larger than I. Somehow I am getting through this...
 

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It would be pretty simple for one of the people transporting to get the dog a quick rabies vaccine. I would not let that be a stumbling block.

BlackMaskRotts is in the greater Seattle area, and so is someone else on here but I can't remember who. Maybe we need a thread for help in WA state.

I haven't read the whole thread yet but I did want to comment on the rabies vaccine thing....

if he ends up going to canada he has to have proof of rabies vacc and it had to be given at LEAST 30 days prior to crossing the border.

Just a handy little piece of info that I picked up taking Teddy across.
 

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I am seriously disgusted by this.

None of us really knows what is going on Reggin's life. We know what she tells us and from there we can either draw our own conclusions or realize that now is not the time for judgements and conclusions and just be there for a fellow Chazzer that is down on her luck.

Like Gemp said she does NOT need bashing. She needs our friendship, compassion, and understanding...if you are not able to offer that, if your sole purpose for posting on this thread is to kick someone when they are down then I can assure you this is NOT the right forum for you.
 
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I highly doubt their relationship was always that way. Things were going well for them just a little while ago, saving money, talking about moving out of state, etc. Things change
And I fail to see how not being married has anything to do with being irresponsible
Pick a word out of a post and make an issue of it if it makes you feel better. It's irresponsible to have children when you're not married. Period.
 

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I am seriously disgusted by this.

None of us really knows what is going on Reggin's life. We know what she tells us and from there we can either draw our own conclusions or realize that now is not the time for judgements and conclusions and just be there for a fellow Chazzer that is down on her luck.

Like Gemp said she does NOT need bashing. She needs our friendship, compassion, and understanding...if you are not able to offer that, if your sole purpose for posting on this thread is to kick someone when they are down then I can assure you this is NOT the right forum for you.
I agree. This is why women don't talk about bad situations. You do not blame the victim of domestic violence. She did the right thing for her children and LEFT. This is rarely the case
 

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Pick a word out of a post and make an issue of it if it makes you feel better. It's irresponsible to have children when you're not married. Period.
Wow. You're right. Everyone needs to get married. It's the only way to live :rolleyes:
 

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I guess I'm not the only one with foot in mouth disease !! We're with you Reggin .....we know you love that dog !
 

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I'm just going to say that I really hope someone can pull Reggin and find him a home. It would be such a shame to see such a sweet dog get PTS at a pound because he's a pitbull.

I also wish you the best with the other two dogs and your daughter and soon to be child. I hope things start to turn around for you and quickly.
 

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Im un married with a child that is well loved and taken care of is that irresponsibleÉ

And as for being married that doesnt make you a good parent sorry try again.

Reggin if you need anything let me know. I have some baby stuff here from when bev was a infant still.
 

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Youch, I went to a domestic violence conference today..... We had speakers from the police, victim support, an international stalking expert (?!) and victims themselves...

Such a sad thing for a person to have to go through :(

Reggin, I am not sure when all this started, but you've done the right thing to remove yourself (or him) from the situation. Keep safe.
 

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Completely agree, Bax.

Reggin has been on a member on this forum for the past 2 years. You can obviously see how much she loves and cares about her pets/child through her FIVE THOUSAND posts.

Bj, why don't you try looking through her HUNDREDS of picture posts, and then tell me that you don't think she cares about her dogs and child?

The only thing disgusting that I see in this thread is the way certain people are treating a long standing member. Instead of bashing her, why don't you try to contact APBT rescues to try to pull Reggin out of the shelter?

And just because Reggin's situation is bad now, it wasn't always. I'm so sick of this judgemental crap being spewed against the boards lately.

(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))) Reggin. I really hope that things get better for you soon. You don't deserve any of this.
 
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My heart breaks for this young woman who has found herself in an untenable situation, along with one child and another on the way.

Regardless of anything that has transpired, I wish you the best possible outcome. Maybe one small step in the right direction is getting your guy Reg taken care of. Please keep coming back and letting us know how you are if you can.
Good post. Ditto this.

Reggin, thanks for posting where Reggin is so that hopefully a chazzer can get him pulled and into safe hands.

I'm so sorry for all you're going through. :(
 

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Pick a word out of a post and make an issue of it if it makes you feel better. It's irresponsible to have children when you're not married. Period.
Yep, a piece of paper is the defining element of responsibility :rolleyes:

Thanks for clearing that one up.

Because ya know, there aren't children with married parents who are crappy or anything.
 
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