Whether it's husband/wife or significant other you share a living space with, LOL
Scenario opinion please
Your SO falls asleep on the couch and it's time for bed. They have a throw pillow and blanket already and look to be sleeping comfortably.
Do you:
1. Wake them up so they can go up to bed with you.
2. Don't disturb them and let them come up on their own if/when they wake up in the night.
I can tell you I usually wake Kevin up and ASK him if he's ready to go up to bed. I don't do it to annoy him, I do it because I want him to be comfortable in his bed and be next to me, help keep me warm and just..........well, BE THERE 'cause I love him, LOL
Last night I fell asleep on the couch, it's not something I do much at all. I had the couch throw on me and a throw pillow. I woke up on my own sometime after everyone had went to bed..........EVERYONE. The house was dark and I was ALONE ...........well except for Orson, he had chosen to stay with me and was sleeping in the chair. (not surprised, at least he loves me )
Anyway, when I woke up in the dark and alone I felt like Kevin didn't even care enough to wake me and ask me to go up with him (I know it's silly, he shows me love all the time in a million ways, but that's what I felt like at the moment, LOL)
So I felt too stubborn to go up and join him in bed! I laid back down on the couch and tried to go back to sleep.........finally managed after awhile, but it just wasn't the same, LOL When he came down this morning, he came directly to find me and asked how I slept. He said I looked very comfortable and he didn't want to wake me because he knows how I have trouble getting to sleep (which is true, but I STILL think he should have asked me, LOL)
So anyway...........what is the routine in your house for this circumstance? Or does it ever happen?
(yes, I am STILL thinking he could have asked me to go upstairs! ROFL)
Scenario opinion please
Your SO falls asleep on the couch and it's time for bed. They have a throw pillow and blanket already and look to be sleeping comfortably.
Do you:
1. Wake them up so they can go up to bed with you.
2. Don't disturb them and let them come up on their own if/when they wake up in the night.
I can tell you I usually wake Kevin up and ASK him if he's ready to go up to bed. I don't do it to annoy him, I do it because I want him to be comfortable in his bed and be next to me, help keep me warm and just..........well, BE THERE 'cause I love him, LOL
Last night I fell asleep on the couch, it's not something I do much at all. I had the couch throw on me and a throw pillow. I woke up on my own sometime after everyone had went to bed..........EVERYONE. The house was dark and I was ALONE ...........well except for Orson, he had chosen to stay with me and was sleeping in the chair. (not surprised, at least he loves me )
Anyway, when I woke up in the dark and alone I felt like Kevin didn't even care enough to wake me and ask me to go up with him (I know it's silly, he shows me love all the time in a million ways, but that's what I felt like at the moment, LOL)
So I felt too stubborn to go up and join him in bed! I laid back down on the couch and tried to go back to sleep.........finally managed after awhile, but it just wasn't the same, LOL When he came down this morning, he came directly to find me and asked how I slept. He said I looked very comfortable and he didn't want to wake me because he knows how I have trouble getting to sleep (which is true, but I STILL think he should have asked me, LOL)
So anyway...........what is the routine in your house for this circumstance? Or does it ever happen?
(yes, I am STILL thinking he could have asked me to go upstairs! ROFL)