I understand that this is a mostly positive training method site. I have no problem with that, I use many of those methods myself. What I don't like is the censoring that happens when someone makes a post that is contrary to the general viewpoint of the forum. I believe that all training camps should have the same platform to express their views. People don't have to agree with each other. If it's a topic you don't like, ignore it! You don't have to comment over and over again on what you think- we already know, and continually posting it only adds fuel to the fire and distracts from the original post. I also find it amazing that people who are so into positively reinforcing their dogs are so quick to give negative enforcement to people.
Dan, I agree with most of what you said. It seems that if you don't train a la the methods of certain members, you get mocked and that's just not right. It has always seemed strange to me that some of those who highly advocate positive reinforcement are the ones least likely to use it in regards to other humans.
I wasn't near the computer much the past few weeks so I haven't been in on any of the recent "discussions". I don't advocate some of the training methods I see people talking about. Of course these are not new methods - the half-drowning is straight out of the original Koehler book of the '60's.
But I don't even see this as a training conflict or even really about this Richling guy .. if you have a problem with someone's methods and you think you have a better answer, then give YOUR method and let the people decide what's better. If your method is better the people will see that and you'll have increased their knowledge. Making fun of someone, acting like a child and slapping each other on the back for throwing insults doesn't help in any way.
I've always believed that moderators may still be members but they have accepted a role that should provide an example to others. That means that if they say "sure, I'll be a mod" then they have agreed to NOT call others names, belittle them, gang up on them, etc. To do that and then to excuse it with saying "but I'm a member" is wrong, especially when they then use their powers as a mod to edit or close the thread. This higher level of behavior is how it's been on other forums I'm on, but somehow that's gotten lost on this forum. Granted, moderating can be a thankful job but NO ONE is forced to do it. I can only think that they don't realize how they come across to the general public when they do this .. I prefer to think that over thinking that they are deliberately mis-using their powers.
Caveat: of course not ALL moderators fall into the category above. If a moderator takes insult, then maybe truth stings a bit.
As far as the heated threads and how they get more posts than other threads .. well, there are reasons for that. First, those who post advice just plain get tired of saying the same thing over and over. If all those who came on here and asked questions first did a search, they'd find that most questions have been asked and answered before. I don't blame the trainers on here for not getting excited about answering another question about housebreaking or loose leash walking .. we've answered those so many times that it's just easier to not even notice them. But a thread full of conflict .. woah, that's exciting .. *L* .. it pulls people out of the doldrums and they find themselves checking frequently to see if any new responses have been made. What I don't understand is the people who post things like "this thread is so disgusting" or "why are you people still adding fuel to this?". It's SO easy to just not read something if you're truly not interested in it. You're not fooling anyone when you post that stuff .. *LOL* .. we all know you're clicking "refresh" over and over hoping someone will respond.
And forums are a place for people to be assertive and confrontational, especially if they're under real/time stress. I think back to when my Dad was dying of cancer (years ago, before I ever came here) and I was pretty darn grumpy online at times. But it was a stress-reliever, I will admit. And no one had to respond to me, of course .. if they did, then they were (in essence) accepting my response.
Oh, and while I'm rambling on (I expect everyone has quit reading by now .. *G*) .. while I don't recommend striking a dog to create pain as a correction, there ARE dogs out there who actually like to be hit. One of Trick's favorite games is for me to smack her with a stick or rope or piece of hose. She goes into a ears-forward, excited/happy dog mode and barks at me until I smack her again (while she tries to grab whatever I have). It sounds bizarre, perhaps, to those with softer dogs .. but this is a game she has always absolutely thrived on. We used to use this as a "rev up" before agility practice runs. In fact, one of the purely positive trainers here went looking for a high-drive malinois because she wanted a dog as tough as Trick.
It just goes to show that not all dogs are the same. Would I play that game with my other dogs? Heck no! They'd hate it. I do play "beat the puppy with my socks" with Khana when I get dressed and she loves grabbing at my socks (so what if they get holes in them .. we're having FUN .. *L*). But physical interactions/corrections are not neccessarily a BAD thing. They need to be appropriate for the particular dog .. in a way that avoids diminishing the relationship you have with your dog. That CAN be done. And I understand why many on here discourage physical corrections, because often people don't have the knowledge to fully gauge how their dogs are reacting. You're far better off making mistakes using positive reinforcement than punishment.
By the way .. in all honesty I would say that the percentage of people on here who balance +R with +P is quite a bit higher than estimated .. they are just not as willing to speak up because of the reactions they get. And that's kind of sad because when they're driven away from here they'll just go to a forum that encourages them to use corrections .. and that surely goes against what many on here want to do. Pushing them away doesn't help their dogs ..
Okay, all done ..
Melanie and the gang in Alaska