When said kid is 16 and at a party, and someone offers them a drink, do you want them to think "mom/dad/grandma/grandpa/whoever isn't here, so if i do it it doesn't matter because i won't get punished" or do you want them to think about the consequences. "What will happen if i drink this? My parents won't trust me, i might get hurt, i might embarrass myself, i might get in trouble with the law".
"What will happen if i drink this? My parents won't trust me, i might get hurt, i might embarrass myself, i might get in trouble with the law"
we're talking spanking right? not all out beating.