I have offered my answer. Get the "experts" off our backs and allow parents to actually parent.
Irrelevant to the fire - you'd be HUUUUGELY suprised at how many people just don't know how to do that.
And I mean the basics.... Comfort a child when it cries... when to feed a baby when it's hungry.
If someone has never been brought up responsibly, or lovingly, it's quite likely that they won't have ever learnt how to parent their own kids in a responsible way.
Of course, it's multiple factors that leads to an outcome, not just one or the other.
I personally think we should give everyone parenting courses. YES some people are already fantastic, so they don't have to listen
But, the people who NEED parenting courses don't COME for them. If they are on offer, it's the middle class, not a problem who generally turn up.
The people who NEED them aren't usually in that bracket, yet they are probably producing the most children......
That's my view anyway. And it's based on what I see and what I know and what I share with people who pick up the pieces of bad parenting.