Ok so im just doing a little waitressing here part time for the summer, and im serving this family..all is well.
I bring them their food, etc..
Well when its time for them to leave, they all get up and then the mom turns to one of her kids, I guess he was like..4 and says "Go hug the nice lady and say thank you!"
before I know it, this kid is running towards me. He ate spaghetti and meatballs and needless to say, its all over his hands/face. as well as sweat (they ate outside) and all kinds of yucky kid stuff
I freak. I did NOT want this kid touching me
Im wearing my NEW cute white sun dress, and I just did NOT want this kid to make a mess of it. I put a lot of effort into wearing cute stuff to work and not getting food all over them
So..well.. Im not exactly proud of this. it was kind of a reflex
I used a menu as a stick and kinda put it between us so he couldn't get close to me
The kid runs into the menu and kinda stumbles backwards then starts CRYING and runs back to his parents. before I know it, the parents are yelling about how rude I am and making a fuss
I felt kind bad, the kid was crying but he was GROSS and the dress was really cute and I dunno
my manager said it was totally fine and I didn't HAVE to hug anybodys kids
Yes, the dress was white and really cute. but I know myself, and I know regardless of what I was wearing, I would've done it anyway.
I didn't HIT the kid with the menu or anything. He ran into it..
but really..is it so wrong? I dont like kids..I dont want to hug them. is it really that RUDE?
I bring them their food, etc..
Well when its time for them to leave, they all get up and then the mom turns to one of her kids, I guess he was like..4 and says "Go hug the nice lady and say thank you!"
before I know it, this kid is running towards me. He ate spaghetti and meatballs and needless to say, its all over his hands/face. as well as sweat (they ate outside) and all kinds of yucky kid stuff
I freak. I did NOT want this kid touching me
Im wearing my NEW cute white sun dress, and I just did NOT want this kid to make a mess of it. I put a lot of effort into wearing cute stuff to work and not getting food all over them
So..well.. Im not exactly proud of this. it was kind of a reflex
I used a menu as a stick and kinda put it between us so he couldn't get close to me
The kid runs into the menu and kinda stumbles backwards then starts CRYING and runs back to his parents. before I know it, the parents are yelling about how rude I am and making a fuss
I felt kind bad, the kid was crying but he was GROSS and the dress was really cute and I dunno
my manager said it was totally fine and I didn't HAVE to hug anybodys kids
Yes, the dress was white and really cute. but I know myself, and I know regardless of what I was wearing, I would've done it anyway.
I didn't HIT the kid with the menu or anything. He ran into it..
but really..is it so wrong? I dont like kids..I dont want to hug them. is it really that RUDE?