Most people do. Take a number.
People really should stop asking for HONEST opinions if what they really mean is, "Don't post unless you know my entire life history, and only if you agree with me."
If you don't want to be with someone anymore, but you stay with that person because
they bring in money, and if
you left them, then
you wouldn't have money...it's called
using the person for money.
If someone else would have come here and said, "my husband obviously wants to leave me, but he's sticking around because I'm the only one working and bringing in money," I **** near guarantee that
every last person here would respond with variations of, "you EARN that money, that's YOUR money, kick the no-good freeloader to the curb and find yourself someone who actually deserves you!"
To those implying that I "obviously don't know anything about abusive relationships?" Really? I was married to one of
the single most manipulative, nasty women you can imagine. I had to choose to lose **** near everything I owned when I got out of that relationship, including things that I had earned, on my own, prior to marriage. Some things I would never have chosen to lose, they were
taken from me.
Trust me, I understand
just fine, and never did I say that the OP wasn't a victim or wasn't in an abusive relationship...I said that based on the information that I can see, my HONEST OPINION is that it's going both ways. My opinion may be biased, because of my own life experience. Yours may be as well. Now let me ask this, for those of you claiming to be this person's friend... You know her, you're her friend, that's great. So why aren't any of her "friends" opening up their home to her and helping her get back on her feet so that she can survive on her own?