Ok, I was just bit by a spider like half an hour ago (a REALLY big spider ). I washed it and put some ointment on it but the bite area is swelling pretty bad. I don't have any ice made so right now I have Lily's chilly bone that I am using as an ice pack. Should I be worried that this bite is swelling this much. It's like all red around the mark and the redness is like as big as a quarter and it's swelled up pretty big now, like half of one of those little bouncy balls you get in the quarter machine. I'm worried, I don't know if I should call and ask my husband to come home or not. I can't really explain the spider except it was big, and black. Not a black widow though, well didn't look like one. I've had a reaction like this to a spider like two years ago and we ended up going to the hospital.