.. but you don't love him/her back! :wall:
I am in this situation and I don't know how to get out of it! I need some advice, anything! Okay, I am not going to say his name, I will call him Thing One( for personal reasons). Okay, me and Thing One have been friends for three years now in highschool. I started to notice in ninth grade that he may have a crush on me, but I just brush that off, like ''whatever.'' I didn't really think he was too serious about it, because you know, he is young, I am young, we should care less about ''love'' am I right?
Well as time goes by, I am in the eleventh and he is too, and that crush turned into something else. He is giving many hints that he wouldn't mind being boyfriend/girlfriend, and I am pretending to not realize these hints. I mean, I only see him as a friend and I don't have any attraction to him, and I think it would be way too awkward. He has been telling our friends about how strongly he feels for me, and they have been telling me that I don't realize the extent of his feelings. That they are REALLY strong.
He has never felt this way about anyone, and I believe he thinks that we are going to be married in the future! One time, we were talking about children, and he let in'' Yeah I wonder what we are going to name our children?'' I pretend that I did not notice it, but here I am thinking WTH!?
He is a nice guy, he really is, but there are things about him that is just annoying. He isn't perverted like most of the boys in high school, but he is so childish to the point of being annoying. Though the thing is, he asks me what he need to do to change, for he will change for me( aww), but I don't want to change him because honestly, if I did ''love'' him, I would love his bad traits as well. But I don't, and I only love him as a friend.
What should I do? Should I give him a chance? The only reason why I won't is because he might expect too much of the relationship, while I want temporary.
I am in a ditch and need help!
I am in this situation and I don't know how to get out of it! I need some advice, anything! Okay, I am not going to say his name, I will call him Thing One( for personal reasons). Okay, me and Thing One have been friends for three years now in highschool. I started to notice in ninth grade that he may have a crush on me, but I just brush that off, like ''whatever.'' I didn't really think he was too serious about it, because you know, he is young, I am young, we should care less about ''love'' am I right?
Well as time goes by, I am in the eleventh and he is too, and that crush turned into something else. He is giving many hints that he wouldn't mind being boyfriend/girlfriend, and I am pretending to not realize these hints. I mean, I only see him as a friend and I don't have any attraction to him, and I think it would be way too awkward. He has been telling our friends about how strongly he feels for me, and they have been telling me that I don't realize the extent of his feelings. That they are REALLY strong.
He has never felt this way about anyone, and I believe he thinks that we are going to be married in the future! One time, we were talking about children, and he let in'' Yeah I wonder what we are going to name our children?'' I pretend that I did not notice it, but here I am thinking WTH!?
He is a nice guy, he really is, but there are things about him that is just annoying. He isn't perverted like most of the boys in high school, but he is so childish to the point of being annoying. Though the thing is, he asks me what he need to do to change, for he will change for me( aww), but I don't want to change him because honestly, if I did ''love'' him, I would love his bad traits as well. But I don't, and I only love him as a friend.
What should I do? Should I give him a chance? The only reason why I won't is because he might expect too much of the relationship, while I want temporary.
I am in a ditch and need help!