hi helpful users of chazhound:
it's been awhile since my puppy's diarrhea mishap. I am happy to report she is much more healthy, and has grown much confidence around the house since her shy entrance a couple weeks ago.
It seems, however, that new problems pop up as old ones die:
I am in a complicated dilemma. Long story short is that I suspect our puppy seems to be hurt by the fact that we had her since 6 weeks (AKA she should've had those two extra weeks socializing with her littermates). For one thing: she has horrendous doggie social skills.
She is about to become 9 weeks old. I found it to be of paramount importance to teach her two things: a) not to bite flesh hard and b) how to socialize with other dogs
Hope is dwindling for both. Two times I brought dogs of similar breed over to her. She plays so wildly and nip-ly that the other dogs just growl at her or ignore her. Just today another dog (my aunt's) came over for a play session. My puppy chased her around the yard for quite a while; I was the only one who knew the truth---> they weren't playing, it was just that my puppy was being a nuisance. In the end we saw the truth when my aunt's dog growled and nipped my puppy in defense.
To make matters more complicated, in 25 days I have to fly to nor-cal to visit my grandparents with my folks. In this period we are planning to let my aunt dog-sit my puppy for 3-4 days. And I mean WITH THAT SAME DOG that nipped her. Of course, it wasn't that dog's fault. It's just that Wanta [my dog] has really bad social skills.
It shows when she plays with us as well. She plays with us the same way. very nip-py and hyper. I tried all the "yelp" training and turning the back and everything; she just doesn't seem to understand hyper play isn't tolerable [and painful nipping]. At times like this we usually ignore her [telling her we won't play till you calm down], but resulting in less effectiveness than I hoped.
so my dilemma is summed down to these things: a) isn't it true the socializing window is opening [and closing later] because she is now 9 weeks, and therefore I need to think of some sort of emergency action? At this rate all the dogs will just snarl at her forever, or she'll learn other dogs are bad (since the window closes around 12-15 weeks).
b) what do I do about my trip? Is leaving my dog with my aunt and her dog a horrendous idea? I feel in my gut incredibly insecure in doing this move that my parents recommended. And what should I do instead if my gut instinct is correct? I plan to do some UBER-socializing in the next 25 days, but my puppy doesn't seem to 'get it'; and I don't exactly have puppies laying around in order to experiment. The only thing I can do is go to the Petco seminars once a week.
And speaking of which today I went to the seminar and my puppy is so shy that she hides in my lap to avoid other dogs (I guess its cause Petco has too much commotion). This one 6 year old girl wanted to pet her (so she counted as a 'child') and Wanta avoided her with all her strength. In other words: the socialization process is going poorly to both new dogs and children. Though.. she loves adults though. And yes, in the safety of our home, she 'socializes' with other dogs present by driving them crazy until they growl at her.
Sorry for the in-succinct writing style, but I wanted to convey my point fully. Help would be appreciated to help socialize this hyper but cute puppy. I am completely clueless about my next move regarding this dilemma
THANKS :hail:
*note: it may be important to note the two dogs she chased and ignored her were 1-2 years older than she; regardless of the age factor, the general interaction between my pup and my aunt's dog makes me insecure to leave her alone with him for 3-4 days. My worrying, however, may be unfounded if said so by experienced forumers. Who knows, maybe this experience might even teach her GOOD socializing skills?.. that is if she isn't killed!
it's been awhile since my puppy's diarrhea mishap. I am happy to report she is much more healthy, and has grown much confidence around the house since her shy entrance a couple weeks ago.
It seems, however, that new problems pop up as old ones die:
I am in a complicated dilemma. Long story short is that I suspect our puppy seems to be hurt by the fact that we had her since 6 weeks (AKA she should've had those two extra weeks socializing with her littermates). For one thing: she has horrendous doggie social skills.
She is about to become 9 weeks old. I found it to be of paramount importance to teach her two things: a) not to bite flesh hard and b) how to socialize with other dogs
Hope is dwindling for both. Two times I brought dogs of similar breed over to her. She plays so wildly and nip-ly that the other dogs just growl at her or ignore her. Just today another dog (my aunt's) came over for a play session. My puppy chased her around the yard for quite a while; I was the only one who knew the truth---> they weren't playing, it was just that my puppy was being a nuisance. In the end we saw the truth when my aunt's dog growled and nipped my puppy in defense.
To make matters more complicated, in 25 days I have to fly to nor-cal to visit my grandparents with my folks. In this period we are planning to let my aunt dog-sit my puppy for 3-4 days. And I mean WITH THAT SAME DOG that nipped her. Of course, it wasn't that dog's fault. It's just that Wanta [my dog] has really bad social skills.
It shows when she plays with us as well. She plays with us the same way. very nip-py and hyper. I tried all the "yelp" training and turning the back and everything; she just doesn't seem to understand hyper play isn't tolerable [and painful nipping]. At times like this we usually ignore her [telling her we won't play till you calm down], but resulting in less effectiveness than I hoped.
so my dilemma is summed down to these things: a) isn't it true the socializing window is opening [and closing later] because she is now 9 weeks, and therefore I need to think of some sort of emergency action? At this rate all the dogs will just snarl at her forever, or she'll learn other dogs are bad (since the window closes around 12-15 weeks).
b) what do I do about my trip? Is leaving my dog with my aunt and her dog a horrendous idea? I feel in my gut incredibly insecure in doing this move that my parents recommended. And what should I do instead if my gut instinct is correct? I plan to do some UBER-socializing in the next 25 days, but my puppy doesn't seem to 'get it'; and I don't exactly have puppies laying around in order to experiment. The only thing I can do is go to the Petco seminars once a week.
And speaking of which today I went to the seminar and my puppy is so shy that she hides in my lap to avoid other dogs (I guess its cause Petco has too much commotion). This one 6 year old girl wanted to pet her (so she counted as a 'child') and Wanta avoided her with all her strength. In other words: the socialization process is going poorly to both new dogs and children. Though.. she loves adults though. And yes, in the safety of our home, she 'socializes' with other dogs present by driving them crazy until they growl at her.
Sorry for the in-succinct writing style, but I wanted to convey my point fully. Help would be appreciated to help socialize this hyper but cute puppy. I am completely clueless about my next move regarding this dilemma
THANKS :hail:
*note: it may be important to note the two dogs she chased and ignored her were 1-2 years older than she; regardless of the age factor, the general interaction between my pup and my aunt's dog makes me insecure to leave her alone with him for 3-4 days. My worrying, however, may be unfounded if said so by experienced forumers. Who knows, maybe this experience might even teach her GOOD socializing skills?.. that is if she isn't killed!