In need of a little lynch mob type justice

[Sunnypup]

I've just been talking to my little sister. She told me that my older half sister, mother of my only nieces and nephews whom I am never allowed to see, called in tears last night. She talked to my mom for hours describing how abused she has been. For the past 8 years.
I don't know if he has touched the kids. Frankly I don't care, it's only a matter of time. Apparently he doesn't like the twin girls. (5 yrs old) These are his kids.

I'm in Texas, they are in Frackville PA and so help me if I had the money I would personally fly there, buy a shot gun and make him pay. If any of you know me, you know I am not a violent person but right now I am seething. It is bad enough I haven't even been allowed to see the babies, it's bad enough he took her far away from us and wouldn't let her answer the phone if we called, and didn't let her come for Christmas or Thanksgiving. It's bad enough that I have been saying, literally for YEARS that he is an abuser, just wait and see.

I want justice. I really really really want to hurt him. Badly. And there is nothing I can do. It is all on her. I want to report the kids for suspected abuse but I'm afraid, if she doesn't leave then he'll turn on her harder. I'm pretty sure his mom is in the local government there too, so that could get ugly.

Just...send prayer, vibes, whatever you've got. Please.

 

[grab01]

That's horrible. I do wish people would be more careful about what situations they bring children into.

 

[bubbatd]

How sad !!!! What's happened to family values ??

 

[smkie]

Kharma will come SP. I never would have believed it myself but she will come and do IT is not for you to do. Kharma does justice in the sweetest of ways. People like that get theirs in the end. EVen if he didn't touch the children he hurt them through the mother. HE hurt them with his meaness.

 

[Renee750il]

Can you give her and the kids a place to stay for awhile if she can get away?

 

[Zoom]

This guy is going to get his...I really hope your sister has the strength to grab the kids and run soon.

(((((((((((((HUGS AND VIBES))))))))))))))

 

[Tortilla]

That's awful. Those poor kids.

 

[sparks19]

Oh geez sunnypup. so sorry to hear this. You know... you could probably hire Brian LOL

 

[Renee750il]

Oh geez sunnypup. so sorry to hear this. You know... you could probably hire Brian LOL

Eddie might be a better choice, lol. We don't have the Puck Bail Fund stocked yet and we need to keep him out of trouble, at least until Hannah's grown up

Eddie looks so sweet and affable . . . no one would ever suspect Eddie. Poor Brian just has "I'm trouble" written all over him

 

[Pam111]

Be careful about reporting abuse, too, because depending on the state, she can get CPS charges for failure to protect

 

[Renee750il]

Good point, Pam. I've seen mothers end up in jail that way.

 

[Pam111]

Good point, Pam. I've seen mothers end up in jail that way.

it's really quite sad. The only time I have seen this happen have been with domestic violence victims, and they already have a hard enough time standing up for themselves and making a report and then something like that happens

 

[Renee750il]

It is sad. There's a difference between a mother who is so beaten down herself she can't defend anyone and one who throws the kids in between herself and the abuser. Unfortunately, the system doesn't necessarily make that distinction very well, and juries . . . well, 'nuff said :wall:

 

[nancy2394]

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I have wanted justice with my situation for a long time. But being filled with the anger and hatred won't get you anywhere.. believe me, I know. That is a terrible situation for your sister and those poor girls. I hope she can get the courage to leave him and protect those girls who depend on her to take care of them. I get so upset with women who stay in a situation like that when kids are involved becaues the kids are the ones that wind up getting hurt the most. I have never been in an abusive relationship, so I can't say I know what battered women go through. I find it very sad.

And although we know you would not truly go and get a shotgun and shoot his sorry arse for justice... you have to becareful what you say on a forum like this because it is public and anyone can read it and your words could be taken out of context. Keep us updated and I will pray for their safety and well being. Keep your chin up. (((HUGS)))

 

[Sunnypup]

Eddie might be a better choice, lol. We don't have the Puck Bail Fund stocked yet and we need to keep him out of trouble, at least until Hannah's grown up

Eddie looks so sweet and affable . . . no one would ever suspect Eddie. Poor Brian just has "I'm trouble" written all over him

Hey, not a bad idea. I can pm all of the details...
As for her ending up in jail...that's what I'm afraid of too. I mean we're talking years of abuse. Years of social isolation. I'm so freaking steamed. I swear, my mother thought I was just jealous, cuz she liked my sisters guy but not Tim. Yeah, I'd make up something like "I suspect he's an abuser" just so she'd hate the guy. That's totally me

Anyway, no update yet but I don't expect there to be for a while.

 

[Fran27]

I'm sorry... I hope she can get out and not get in trouble

 

[smkie]

I had to take off with nothing. HIde with my children. No one knows how hard that is to do...how scary. My ex found us at one point and i had to sneak out via the neighbor's appt. I had my car in a hidden spot behind. My legs were shaking so bad i couldn't hardly manage the clutch and the gas pedal. WE got out that time. I pray to God you can get her to take that first step. AFter that she won't be able to stop herself from running.

 

[Renee750il]

There are underground railroad types of organizations that will help women get away -- new identities, the whole works.