do "pretty"/"good looking" get treated different?

I don't even know what is happening right now.

We were talking about if people had a choice BTW having their looks or being thin, and keeping their mental issues (should they have any) or be 7 glycerin and mentally healthy.

I'm the only one who is saying what 70% of the forum wants to say but is too **** polite to actually say? Unless it's on FB, in chat, or in PMs.

I want to be PMed, but only if it's pictures of sexy inmates.

It's not just what you said, it's how it came across. I know people trade in looks for health all the time. But to say "I'd rather be pretty than mentally stable" I'm sorry, to me that is really conceited and just so arrogant. Mental health, or missing an arm or a leg is not something people choose to have or not have. It's NOT like choosing to go tanning or to restrict yourself to 500 calories a day. It portrays everything that is wrong with society: nothing matters as long as your skinny and pretty. It doesn't matter WHO you are, what is behind that oh so pretty face. That is what's wrong with your statement.

You're whole argument that a woman is only a "real" woman when she does this and this or doesn't do certain things - again, you and your mindset are part of the problem.

Your statement that women are so catty and you'd rather hang out with the boys - again, that makes you part of the problem.

Society is so twisted when it comes to women and I have no tolerance for someone, ESPECIALLY, a woman to contribute to this bs.

No ****!

See? Bitches be crazy.

I've met plenty of ugly "pretty" people.

Aren't you yourself being "catty" with this very statement? I am not wishing I had a mental issue, I HAVE mental issues and there are ways (for me) to manage it, so I don't need to "trade it in". It's easier to function in society with the mental issues I have now WITH my looks than to be ugly and mentally healthy because I would end up with body image issues anyway.

I mean this about MYSELF I never said OTHER PEOPLE with mental issues shouldn't trade in THEIR looks for mental health.

So no, I voiced a personal statement about myself, so no I do not see the problem.

Ah crap I didn't even realize how I wrote that!! Rigby is definitely a girl :rofl1:

I meant that because Rigby is often with Cobain, he doesn't get the perks because they'd have to let her funny-looking ass in with him

Just to be sorta on topic I guess.....

If some magical fairy came by and offered to rid me of all my "issues" but change what I look like (regardless of whether the change be considered ugly or pretty), I think I'd rather stay being me?
I mean, I've gotten pretty used to my mental state and looks over the past 23 years

I love this quote

Dogdragoness, you seem to think that everyone is unattractive except for you! Pregnant women are ugly and disgusting, women with makeup and nice clothes are "fake" and unattractive, etc, etc. You are really doing women an injustice.

When anyone calls you out on being rude and snotty, you pull the same BS excuse every time: "it's a public forum, it's my opinion, I can say what I want!!!" You use the excuse of freedom of expression to hide behind your screen in order to be an offensive b*tch. Why do you care SO much about how attractive other women are. Why does it disgust you so much to see women you don't feel have "nice" bodies?

I think you're living inside your head quite a bit:

But then you say that attitude makes you attractive... even though you clearly think that women have to look a certain way to be "attractive."

I'd recommend getting some help to work through these issues. You've offended more than a handful of women and girls on this forum. They're not the ones with issues though... it's you.

Not worth it

I was so confused but I'm usually confused so....lol

You were rightfully confused there My wording was pretty off, I blame the post-exam brain I had going on

Deleted. It was mean and, well, not totally uncalled for, but still.

I was going to say I agreed with what you wrote

I's prooooobably not helping "the cause" any to call another woman "ugly" as though that's the worst possible thing they could be.

I think we could probably come up with another list of things to call an individual based on their behavior than "ugly."

Like


Although I get that it's a response to "I'M SO PRETTY LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME." So the natural adjective to use is the opposite of pretty. But perhaps not the most appropriate one (even if it's true?)


Also, I gotta tell you guys, it does wonders for your blood pressure and stress level to put people on ignore. I've missed like half the "REASONS TO GET HOT AND INSULT OTHER PEOPLE" in this thread. I'd have missed all of them if you people would quit quoting.

I just wanted to say that it has been my experience that the people so busy pointing out how "ugly and unattractive" other people are, the ones with the "I am so great looking and nobody is attractive as me" attitude are often the ones that are the most insecure about their appearance.

If you genuinely like the way you look..if you genuinely find yourself attractive you don't have the need to point out "flaws" in the appearance of others to make sure everyone knows how "pretty" you are.

Well, at least I wasn't alone!

And Beanie, you're totally right. Hence my delete