i thought she was just getting stubborn. Taking advantage of the fact she was old and trying to get away with things she didn't use to do. Today at the clay guild i got up to get the towels to fold and she was asleep. I guess while i was in the back she thought i went out the front door and was sitting there in front of it waiting for me. I called her name. Her head never moved. I clapped my hands several times, and still not a muscle twitched. So now i feel awful. I have been scolding her and she can't hear me . Now i will have to watch her three times as close outside for she won't be able to hear cars either.