yeah, it's completely impossible for a kid to not cause trouble for an hour :rofl1: I guess that speaks to the parents????
I know some people don't like kids. That's fine. I never said a wedding needs to "revolve" around kids. I wonder why types of weddings you guys go to where they are ruined by kids being around? do your friends and family not parent? We just got back from a wedding in St. Louis and had our not quite 8 month old with us, rehearsal, ceremony AND reception :yikes::yikes::yikes::yikes: Kids from 3 months to teenagers, all present and having fun like everyone else. No outbursts to ruin the ceremony, the cutest ring bearers you could find, some great memories made and no cake knocked over. How the heck does that happen???
I guess it starts with parents not letting their kids be a distraction and a bride and groom that realize the people closest to them have families and if they want to have them be a part of their lives, it probably includes their kids too. Amazing concept.
and I never said not wanting kids said anything about your relationship, I said if a crying kid can ruin your day, you're in for much bigger hardships in the not too distant future. Trust me, a hand in the wedding cake is absolutely nothing. If that's the kind of thing that makes you lose it and ruin the start of your life together with another man or woman, well get ready for an interesting ride
How are you going to handle the stuff that really matters?
and anyway, what I was getting at was that I think people put far too much importance on the wedding day, and not enough on marriage. That's why when flowers aren't right, people break down. I think those are serious misplaced priorities. I guess I see weddings as being more about relationships and as long as the people most important to you are there to celebrate, I don't see the big deal if a cake is ruined, most of it goes to waste anyway. Or if a kid cries or runs across the dance floor. Little stuff, even on wedding days.