the key here is i personally dont think theres many people on this board that tessa hasnt personally attacked in one way or another...direct or indirect...
she has a wonderfull way with words is one way to put it, but shes PURPOSLY hurtfull...
telling someone that having a c-section makes you unworthy of having a baby TO someone that had a c-section is just one occurance thats gone on reacently.
i personally think it was about time tessa got it back, if she cant take the fire then perhaps it is time for her to leave...
quite honestly...
tessa has been offered ALOT of advice during the short time ive personally been paying attention to her posts...and she has taken NONE of it, shes been offered advice by many only to turn around and flat out tell them they are wrong...
shes boasted how shes working the system, free rent, how working more than 6 hours a week is IMPOSSIBLE because of this that and the other reason, how the state NEEDS to give her more, needs to offere more options for health care, baby assistance, more money, THEN goes out and buys a VERY expencive digital camera (her other one worked fine but just wasnt good enough...)
ive seen many attempts of people trying to be nice to her...many offering various adivice...many trying to give her the benefit of YEARS of expereince and she has the balls to turn around and tell them THEY are wrong because her ways the only way...
i do agree that this thread got out of cotrol over the top and people got out of hand stooping to tessas level...BUT i also understand WHY folks have reacted to this the way they have...
tessa starts name dropping,
this thread alone poor breeze and others, heck, i think it was M&M's mommy who was actually being perfectly civil with tessa and suddenly tessas dragging her name through the mud...wtf?
tessa is NOT a teenager anymore, she became an adult the day she decided to have unprotected sex...she became a grownup the moment she brought that baby into this world...
she has been offered tonnes of support here and her attitude towards it has been more than discusting...and infact down right insulting to most of the members here...
she claimes shes the most nonconfrontational person EVER...and quite frankly if she feels the way she acts here is none confrontational then its no wonder she has such a hard time finding people to treat her as an adult...
now we all know some have very strong opinions on tessa here and dont miss a chance to take a pot shot...
but the likes of smkie, breeze, grammy, gypsy ect, folks that have in the past given her good advice and then just simply stepped back when it didnt sink, folks that are typically "ok dont like it im not getting into it..." the fact she drove some of those members to this kind of retaliation says an awefull lot...
i realy do wish the best for mason, but tessa NEEDS to get over herself, STOP thinking shes the queen of the universe, stop thinking that she knows EVERYTHING and better than everyone and flat out get her head out of her butt, her and her teenage husband have a child to raise in a very difficult world, and i hope for that babies sake nothing bad happens,
but as parents...
well tessa needs a HUGE dose of reality...
and im not talking "i live with my grandmother in law for free work 6 hours a week and live off the govt..."