Alot of you know that my h usband was killed 2 months ago, hit by a drunk driver. Then, on a p ublic forum, there are all these stories about how much fun we have had when were wasted. I am not a teatotaler, however, when any aged person can get on a forum and read these stories, what are we telling them? That it is fun to get drunk and act like an idiot, and that it is okay? That they will know that al though they can get drunk, they s houldn't drive. The kid that hit my husband was 17. hhhhmmmm. I know that this will make me unpopular, but if it had happened to you, you would not find these stories funny, or r esponsible. My husband left behind four daughters, who cry for him constantly. I had let my 11 year old on here because normally the stories are so neat, and the support awesome. She didn't understand this thread either.