moms: family doctor or ped?

A sense of humor means making hateful comments about other people meant to hurt them?
I guess I don't want one
These aren't "haha, that's so funny" jokes. These are really mean spirited "jokes"

So, this is a vaccination, no vaccination debate? about Mumps? ask the almost 800 out of 1000 people in NJ that were vaccinated for mumps in a recent outbreak how that vaccine worked out for them.

as for the MMR vaccine, ever look into the antibodies it makes in relation to autoimmune stuff, like diabetes? You know, because you've read or maybe perhaps performed these studies yourself that an MMR vaccine produces ICA (islet cell antibodies) that are found in about 90% of diagnosed diabetic patients. You also know that these antibodies, among many others are thought be a cause of type I diabetes?

I'd be willing to bet that most on here haven't done much in the way of independent study concerning these, they just repeat what they've heard, pro or against. Does that make one group more "right" than the other? or any more knowledgeable?

Oh, and the "why you should buy expensive electronic equipment even though you can't afford food" chapter. That's always a good one.

Really??? What a nasty, obnoxious, and just plain mean thread. When you are spending your free time repeatedly belittling a teenage mother when you could just blocking her posts (but that would mean that you can't be nasty to her, and where is the sport in that, right?) then perhaps it's time for some serious reevaluation......

the key here is i personally dont think theres many people on this board that tessa hasnt personally attacked in one way or another...direct or indirect...
she has a wonderfull way with words is one way to put it, but shes PURPOSLY hurtfull...

telling someone that having a c-section makes you unworthy of having a baby TO someone that had a c-section is just one occurance thats gone on reacently.

i personally think it was about time tessa got it back, if she cant take the fire then perhaps it is time for her to leave...
quite honestly...

tessa has been offered ALOT of advice during the short time ive personally been paying attention to her posts...and she has taken NONE of it, shes been offered advice by many only to turn around and flat out tell them they are wrong...
shes boasted how shes working the system, free rent, how working more than 6 hours a week is IMPOSSIBLE because of this that and the other reason, how the state NEEDS to give her more, needs to offere more options for health care, baby assistance, more money, THEN goes out and buys a VERY expencive digital camera (her other one worked fine but just wasnt good enough...)
ive seen many attempts of people trying to be nice to her...many offering various adivice...many trying to give her the benefit of YEARS of expereince and she has the balls to turn around and tell them THEY are wrong because her ways the only way...

i do agree that this thread got out of cotrol over the top and people got out of hand stooping to tessas level...BUT i also understand WHY folks have reacted to this the way they have...

tessa starts name dropping,
this thread alone poor breeze and others, heck, i think it was M&M's mommy who was actually being perfectly civil with tessa and suddenly tessas dragging her name through the mud...wtf?

tessa is NOT a teenager anymore, she became an adult the day she decided to have unprotected sex...she became a grownup the moment she brought that baby into this world...
she has been offered tonnes of support here and her attitude towards it has been more than discusting...and infact down right insulting to most of the members here...

she claimes shes the most nonconfrontational person EVER...and quite frankly if she feels the way she acts here is none confrontational then its no wonder she has such a hard time finding people to treat her as an adult...

now we all know some have very strong opinions on tessa here and dont miss a chance to take a pot shot...

but the likes of smkie, breeze, grammy, gypsy ect, folks that have in the past given her good advice and then just simply stepped back when it didnt sink, folks that are typically "ok dont like it im not getting into it..." the fact she drove some of those members to this kind of retaliation says an awefull lot...

i realy do wish the best for mason, but tessa NEEDS to get over herself, STOP thinking shes the queen of the universe, stop thinking that she knows EVERYTHING and better than everyone and flat out get her head out of her butt, her and her teenage husband have a child to raise in a very difficult world, and i hope for that babies sake nothing bad happens,
but as parents...
well tessa needs a HUGE dose of reality...

and im not talking "i live with my grandmother in law for free work 6 hours a week and live off the govt..."

the key here is i personally dont think theres many people on this board that tessa hasnt personally attacked in one way or another...direct or indirect...
she has a wonderfull way with words is one way to put it, but shes PURPOSLY hurtfull...

telling someone that having a c-section makes you unworthy of having a baby TO someone that had a c-section is just one occurance thats gone on reacently.

i personally think it was about time tessa got it back, if she cant take the fire then perhaps it is time for her to leave...
quite honestly...

tessa has been offered ALOT of advice during the short time ive personally been paying attention to her posts...and she has taken NONE of it, shes been offered advice by many only to turn around and flat out tell them they are wrong...
shes boasted how shes working the system, free rent, how working more than 6 hours a week is IMPOSSIBLE because of this that and the other reason, how the state NEEDS to give her more, needs to offere more options for health care, baby assistance, more money, THEN goes out and buys a VERY expencive digital camera (her other one worked fine but just wasnt good enough...)
ive seen many attempts of people trying to be nice to her...many offering various adivice...many trying to give her the benefit of YEARS of expereince and she has the balls to turn around and tell them THEY are wrong because her ways the only way...

i do agree that this thread got out of cotrol over the top and people got out of hand stooping to tessas level...BUT i also understand WHY folks have reacted to this the way they have...

tessa starts name dropping,
this thread alone poor breeze and others, heck, i think it was M&M's mommy who was actually being perfectly civil with tessa and suddenly tessas dragging her name through the mud...wtf?

tessa is NOT a teenager anymore, she became an adult the day she decided to have unprotected sex...she became a grownup the moment she brought that baby into this world...
she has been offered tonnes of support here and her attitude towards it has been more than discusting...and infact down right insulting to most of the members here...

she claimes shes the most nonconfrontational person EVER...and quite frankly if she feels the way she acts here is none confrontational then its no wonder she has such a hard time finding people to treat her as an adult...

now we all know some have very strong opinions on tessa here and dont miss a chance to take a pot shot...

but the likes of smkie, breeze, grammy, gypsy ect, folks that have in the past given her good advice and then just simply stepped back when it didnt sink, folks that are typically "ok dont like it im not getting into it..." the fact she drove some of those members to this kind of retaliation says an awefull lot...

i realy do wish the best for mason, but tessa NEEDS to get over herself, STOP thinking shes the queen of the universe, stop thinking that she knows EVERYTHING and better than everyone and flat out get her head out of her butt, her and her teenage husband have a child to raise in a very difficult world, and i hope for that babies sake nothing bad happens,
but as parents...
well tessa needs a HUGE dose of reality...

and im not talking "i live with my grandmother in law for free work 6 hours a week and live off the govt..."

the key here is i personally dont think theres many people on this board that tessa hasnt personally attacked in one way or another...direct or indirect...
she has a wonderfull way with words is one way to put it, but shes PURPOSLY hurtfull...

telling someone that having a c-section makes you unworthy of having a baby TO someone that had a c-section is just one occurance thats gone on reacently.

i personally think it was about time tessa got it back, if she cant take the fire then perhaps it is time for her to leave...
quite honestly...

tessa has been offered ALOT of advice during the short time ive personally been paying attention to her posts...and she has taken NONE of it, shes been offered advice by many only to turn around and flat out tell them they are wrong...
shes boasted how shes working the system, free rent, how working more than 6 hours a week is IMPOSSIBLE because of this that and the other reason, how the state NEEDS to give her more, needs to offere more options for health care, baby assistance, more money, THEN goes out and buys a VERY expencive digital camera (her other one worked fine but just wasnt good enough...)
ive seen many attempts of people trying to be nice to her...many offering various adivice...many trying to give her the benefit of YEARS of expereince and she has the balls to turn around and tell them THEY are wrong because her ways the only way...

i do agree that this thread got out of cotrol over the top and people got out of hand stooping to tessas level...BUT i also understand WHY folks have reacted to this the way they have...

tessa starts name dropping,
this thread alone poor breeze and others, heck, i think it was M&M's mommy who was actually being perfectly civil with tessa and suddenly tessas dragging her name through the mud...wtf?

tessa is NOT a teenager anymore, she became an adult the day she decided to have unprotected sex...she became a grownup the moment she brought that baby into this world...
she has been offered tonnes of support here and her attitude towards it has been more than discusting...and infact down right insulting to most of the members here...

she claimes shes the most nonconfrontational person EVER...and quite frankly if she feels the way she acts here is none confrontational then its no wonder she has such a hard time finding people to treat her as an adult...

now we all know some have very strong opinions on tessa here and dont miss a chance to take a pot shot...

but the likes of smkie, breeze, grammy, gypsy ect, folks that have in the past given her good advice and then just simply stepped back when it didnt sink, folks that are typically "ok dont like it im not getting into it..." the fact she drove some of those members to this kind of retaliation says an awefull lot...

i realy do wish the best for mason, but tessa NEEDS to get over herself, STOP thinking shes the queen of the universe, stop thinking that she knows EVERYTHING and better than everyone and flat out get her head out of her butt, her and her teenage husband have a child to raise in a very difficult world, and i hope for that babies sake nothing bad happens,
but as parents...
well tessa needs a HUGE dose of reality...

and im not talking "i live with my grandmother in law for free work 6 hours a week and live off the govt..."

It's not frequently that I agree with you Foxy (but I do respect your opinions, lol) but this right here...it says more than I could ever say and still be nice. Kudos.

I also Agree with Foxy.

Not to drudge up hard feelings but this isn't the first time that Tessa has felt the need to leave chaz after her attitude got her a bad reputation and I'm sure no one has forgotten that either. and then always comes back with the promise that her attitude has improved but it always goes back to old habits.

the key here is i personally dont think theres many people on this board that tessa hasnt personally attacked in one way or another...direct or indirect...
she has a wonderfull way with words is one way to put it, but shes PURPOSLY hurtfull...

telling someone that having a c-section makes you unworthy of having a baby TO someone that had a c-section is just one occurance thats gone on reacently.

i personally think it was about time tessa got it back, if she cant take the fire then perhaps it is time for her to leave...
quite honestly...

tessa has been offered ALOT of advice during the short time ive personally been paying attention to her posts...and she has taken NONE of it, shes been offered advice by many only to turn around and flat out tell them they are wrong...
shes boasted how shes working the system, free rent, how working more than 6 hours a week is IMPOSSIBLE because of this that and the other reason, how the state NEEDS to give her more, needs to offere more options for health care, baby assistance, more money, THEN goes out and buys a VERY expencive digital camera (her other one worked fine but just wasnt good enough...)
ive seen many attempts of people trying to be nice to her...many offering various adivice...many trying to give her the benefit of YEARS of expereince and she has the balls to turn around and tell them THEY are wrong because her ways the only way...

i do agree that this thread got out of cotrol over the top and people got out of hand stooping to tessas level...BUT i also understand WHY folks have reacted to this the way they have...

tessa starts name dropping,
this thread alone poor breeze and others, heck, i think it was M&M's mommy who was actually being perfectly civil with tessa and suddenly tessas dragging her name through the mud...wtf?

tessa is NOT a teenager anymore, she became an adult the day she decided to have unprotected sex...she became a grownup the moment she brought that baby into this world...
she has been offered tonnes of support here and her attitude towards it has been more than discusting...and infact down right insulting to most of the members here...

she claimes shes the most nonconfrontational person EVER...and quite frankly if she feels the way she acts here is none confrontational then its no wonder she has such a hard time finding people to treat her as an adult...

now we all know some have very strong opinions on tessa here and dont miss a chance to take a pot shot...

but the likes of smkie, breeze, grammy, gypsy ect, folks that have in the past given her good advice and then just simply stepped back when it didnt sink, folks that are typically "ok dont like it im not getting into it..." the fact she drove some of those members to this kind of retaliation says an awefull lot...

i realy do wish the best for mason, but tessa NEEDS to get over herself, STOP thinking shes the queen of the universe, stop thinking that she knows EVERYTHING and better than everyone and flat out get her head out of her butt, her and her teenage husband have a child to raise in a very difficult world, and i hope for that babies sake nothing bad happens,
but as parents...
well tessa needs a HUGE dose of reality...

and im not talking "i live with my grandmother in law for free work 6 hours a week and live off the govt..."

Sadly, blocking her posts doesn't always mean you can ignore the drama. It's not only her own threads she starts this stuff in.

IF you can sit there and say you are protecting yoru baby from disease (implying that I am not), then why is it rude for me to say that I'm protecting my baby from vaccines? pot meet kettle.