Hey all. I just need a few recommendations on training. I'm a seriously soft touch when it comes to training. My 6.5 month old female Pom has two different personalities...one for me and one for my husband. My husband doesn't take any flack from her so she almost always obeys his commands. When it comes to me on the other hand...even when I use my "stern" voice, I'm pretty sure she still thinks it's play time. I know this is all my fault for treating her like a baby when I should have been treating her like a dog....how can I start over and make her realize that I'm the pack leader not a litter mate?
One more thing...currently we keep her penned up in a large area of our kitchen while we're gone during the day. She uses a pee pad...really the only thing we can do since we have no one to check on her and doggy day care is just too expensive. I'm having trouble getting it through to her that she can go outside while I'm home. I crate her at night and the first place we go is out when she wakes up...she immediately goes and even seems to know what I expect of her...yet at other times she seems confused...she'll go out side to play or go on a walk and then come home and use her pee pad...is there anything I can do? I also made the mistake of giving her more freedom down stairs (hardwood with area rugs) only to find that she had been peeing on the rugs but I didn't notice because it sunk in too quickly. Any suggestions for that?
I know they are pack animals and I don't want her penned up while I get all my work done around the house. (just this week she literally clawed a hole in the wall which I can only label as frustration and separation anxiety). I have taken to putting her on a leash while I watch TV or work on the computer, etc...so I can keep an eye on her...she's not too keen on that and chews on the leash...even when i scold her and give her a chew bone or toy...again, any suggestions?
I know Poms can be tough but she is a sweet, sweet girl and I want to make her a good companion...not a prisoner in a pen. Sorry for the long post. Thanks!
One more thing...currently we keep her penned up in a large area of our kitchen while we're gone during the day. She uses a pee pad...really the only thing we can do since we have no one to check on her and doggy day care is just too expensive. I'm having trouble getting it through to her that she can go outside while I'm home. I crate her at night and the first place we go is out when she wakes up...she immediately goes and even seems to know what I expect of her...yet at other times she seems confused...she'll go out side to play or go on a walk and then come home and use her pee pad...is there anything I can do? I also made the mistake of giving her more freedom down stairs (hardwood with area rugs) only to find that she had been peeing on the rugs but I didn't notice because it sunk in too quickly. Any suggestions for that?
I know they are pack animals and I don't want her penned up while I get all my work done around the house. (just this week she literally clawed a hole in the wall which I can only label as frustration and separation anxiety). I have taken to putting her on a leash while I watch TV or work on the computer, etc...so I can keep an eye on her...she's not too keen on that and chews on the leash...even when i scold her and give her a chew bone or toy...again, any suggestions?
I know Poms can be tough but she is a sweet, sweet girl and I want to make her a good companion...not a prisoner in a pen. Sorry for the long post. Thanks!