If we're being completely honest...I don't agree with fertility drugs at all. Personally, there are millions of kids without homes in a world with extreme population problems, so I really struggle with the idea of bringing children into this world when so many are living in terrible conditions. BUT, I know I'm the minority in that view point, and I would never tell someone who wanted biological kids they shouldn't have them--I can see wanting to see what the union of you and your spouse is like, and having someone with your characteristics.
I guess I just don't get it--and I'm honestly not trying to be hurtful here at all, so if I am tell me, and I'll stop replying. Why do people spend thousands and thousands of dollars (I read it's $10k+ per treatment, and often takes multiple treatments) to have kids number 5, 6, 7? If you want a large family, why not spend that same money and adopt a child who otherwise is going to have a crummy life in an orphanage in the ukraine or africa or indonesia or korea?
I guess I just don't get it--and I'm honestly not trying to be hurtful here at all, so if I am tell me, and I'll stop replying. Why do people spend thousands and thousands of dollars (I read it's $10k+ per treatment, and often takes multiple treatments) to have kids number 5, 6, 7? If you want a large family, why not spend that same money and adopt a child who otherwise is going to have a crummy life in an orphanage in the ukraine or africa or indonesia or korea?
You're not being hurtful. I don't take it to that level. And I don't want you to hold in your opinions/beliefs.
I have no issues with adoption and have always wanted to do it. My problem is the amount of money it costs to do so. My younger cousin just adopted a newborn about 8 months ago and a 5-yr-old girl just 2 months ago. Both adoptions combined set them back almost $100,000. I don't have that kind of money whatsoever. My other cousin, who adopted a baby girl from China about 5 years ago, spent over $40,000 on that adoption. Again, I don't have that kind of money and I can't just make it magically appear. That's what is keeping me from adopting in the near future.